Avoid the Many Versions of the Matrix

people in office buildings In the movie, The Matrix, Neo (played by sad Keanu Reeves) finds out that he’s living in this fake world that’s nothing more than a program designed to keep humans entertained while big systems suck their life force out like batteries (okay, when I type it all out, it’s a dopey movie, but stay with me here). Neo gets freed by these people who then train him how to go back into the program and fight the bad guys. The basic premise: nothing is as it seems: look for the pattern outside of the perception to see the “real” reality.

One way to interpret the movie is that we’re supposed to realize that there are lots of games out there, and many of them are designed to deceive you, to keep you feeling as if you’re running the show when you’re not.

Thinking that way, is it any wonder that in the US more people voted for American Idol than in the US presidential elections ( one source). It’s a trap. Why vote on politics, which we feel we can’t influence, when we can vote on singers, which we feel we can? See? The Matrix.

Job security= being employed by a stable company. Matrix or no?

C’mon.

After we watch movies, we tend to get a Matrix effect. We watch someone doing all kinds of action on the screen, and we feel all pumped up, forgetting that we were sitting still eating popcorn and drinking fishbowls of Coke. We feel like we’re more fit, more accomplished, but that’s just the movie leaving an impression.

I watch people get all bent out of shape on the net every day. They change their Twitter avatars in protest against BP, as if this will have any kind of effect. I listened to two people complain that I found the layoffs of 33% of Linden Labs to be “neat,” because my @broganmedia account says “found this neat” as a standard phrase before every story I share. I see people get mad at various things in Facebook all the time.

I see marketers come up with reason after reason to do things the way they’ve always been done, even when that way fails faster and worse each day (for most things).

How many versions of the Matrix are you stuck in? How many am I? Do you at least look for them?

There’s what we think is real; there’s what we observe as real: and then there’s what we can change. Avoid the many versions of the Matrix. Look for it everywhere. Make your own game.

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  • beckyholland

    Excellent post. And thank you for the “dopey” summary of the Matrix, I haven't seen the whole movie and your post would have made no sense without it. You make a very valid point though. If you really wanted to be fit, you wouldn't be watching the movie… if you really wanted to clean up the oil, you would be down in the gulf helping… and if youdon't want to be caught in the Matrix, you have to see that it really is all just a game.

  • http://www.ivanwalsh.com Ivan Walsh

    Hi Chris,

    I didn’t believe in ‘web addiction’ at first. But, I've revised this recently seeing how others are so tied into the Facebook, Farmville etc – sometimes it beggar’s belief.

    Their identify is so locked into their online persona.

    Here in China, they’ve started to put timers on gaming websites (esp for kids) that knocks them off after X number of minutes. It seems a bit drastic but maybe there’s something in it.

  • http://jim.shamlin.com Jim Shamlin

    The Matrix is an interesting, but oversimplified, expression of the problem. The choice between what is right/real and what is wrong/fake is seldom straightforward – and it's often those who tell you that you're being misled is are often themselves the ones trying to mislead you. And even when you've done your best to see through it, there's always the question of whether you've found what's right/real or are simply creating your own false reality. And when you suggest to others that you have “the truth”, are you becoming the weaver of your own web of deceit?

  • http://www.danieldecker.net Daniel Decker

    Powerful perspective to have. I've always been amazed at just what people take at face value, getting so amped up at things that don't matter and doing little about the things that do. Perception is reality to so many but often that perception is built on the wrong way to perceive it, a limited perspective. I agree 100% that we need to avoid it. Awareness is key. Opening our eyes wide enough to see and being responsive instead of reactive.

    Side note on the job security deal… great point. Security is an illusion born our of control and our desire for it. Technically there is just as much risk being fired today from a big “safe” company as there is loosing it all by risking going for it on your own. I choose my own because at least then I have more control over the direction. :) Matrix.

  • http://www.ChristopherSPenn.com Christopher S. Penn

    There is no spoon.

  • Dan O'Connor

    Chris,
    You have hit on a core concept. Are we not are all “programmed” to fit into the Matrix of life?

    Go to school
    Get a job
    Get married
    Have kids
    Retire
    Die
    There is nothing inherently wrong with any of this (except the dieing part). But the question is-Are you doing this by choice and in your own way or because that is the program?

    Or what about the big one.
    God/ fate/the universe has a plan for you. Whatever happens is for a reason. Don't question his/its wisdom.
    This is truly the Matrix at its best/worst.
    Should we not step out of Platos's cave and have a look around?

    Once again you have pushed me into writing a post that I have been avoiding.

    Thanks

  • http://www.benspark.com BenSpark

    I really thought you were going to go off on Farmville again. LOL.

    But to be serious, I'm in the Matrix right now and to be honest that is where I will be as I'm the sole provider for my family. The full time job is what is keeping us out of the poor house and in health care. No other company I know of has our health benefits package.

    I did however take steps to break from a position that I am not satisfied with and make the move to another position within the company. I am also building my escape plan by consulting and speaking and shaving like crazy (shavenewworld.com, check it out.)

  • martijnlinssen

    Marvellous movie, the Matrix. Pretty much the same as Jesus Christ Superstar, but with splendid effects and a far better outcome

    Epictetus (http://www.martijnlinssen.com/p/epictetus-enchi…) said back around 50 AD:

    1. Some things are in our control and others not. Things in our control are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion, and, in a word, whatever are our own actions. Things not in our control are body, property, reputation, command, and, in one word, whatever are not our own actions.

    I put a poem on my site a while ago, maybe you'll like it:

    http://www.martijnlinssen.com/2010/02/broken-re

  • http://twitter.com/NetmediaBangkok Net Media Thailand

    De Ja Vus and seeing things all part of it mate, I believe the mind can spin anything to believe it true, if you see the work of great hypnotists like Derren Brown you will know. Me and a lovely lady from India on Facebook want to both go to Nepal and be Shaolin Monks and give up chasing the dream which will always shift the goalposts, that's Capitalism for you! They say be careful what you wish for you may just get it ! Great blog mate I like it but then again was I supposed too??????

  • reallifesarah

    Amazing perspective once again, Chris. As a woman, my emotions rule my perceptions most times. So that is my matrix. The past several years, I've been working on taking a step back from what I FEEL and looking at what is actually TRUE! Of course, this has a lot to do with my faith, but it is so empowering, in life, parenting, business, everything.

  • http://www.AdSenseHome.com khush-AdSense Information

    Great perspective to look at what seems to be real.

  • http://r4adaptors.co.uk/ m3 real

    I had read this article and these are really very informative perspective. Very nice to read about this interesting article.

  • whitneyhoffman

    Our brains are hardwired to see someone else's experience and incorporate it as our own- that's the beauty of mirror neurons. You can visualize success, and it helps you make that a reality; you can watch someone else do something, and then repeat it yourself; you can predict someone else's behavior by watching what their doing and your brain does the math and lets you know what will happen next. This doesn't make others actions our own, but it does start to give us the tools and the learning by observing to make things happen in our own life.

    Dr. Phil said a long time ago that there is no reality, only perception. You can choose how you react and feel about almost any event or circumstance. Figuring out that for every action, there is an equal (and sometimes opposite) reaction is basic physics, but in it's simplest form it means for every action there is an effect, positive or negative. The trick here is to figure out which rules are sacrosanct (like gravity) and which ones are more guidelines, which need to be flexible in application by their very nature (HR policies, the law.)

  • http://twitter.com/mckra1g mckra1g

    The “Real” is anything that compels authentic emotion: tears, anger, core laughter. I've trained myself to observe the environment/factors of the situations around which such reactions occur. Those are the “flags” to my true self and are the things I use as “pitons” to move forward/upward, metaphysically speaking. The rest is just noise.

  • http://twitter.com/mckra1g mckra1g

    The “Real” is anything that compels authentic emotion: tears, anger, core laughter. I've trained myself to observe the environment/factors of the situations around which such reactions occur. Those are the “flags” to my true self and are the things I use as “pitons” to move forward/upward, metaphysically speaking. The rest is just noise.

  • http://johnmclachlan.ca/ John McLachlan

    I love what you say about people getting upset by the smallest things/issues. It's very true and I will admit, I do too.

    What I really liked about the Matrix metaphor is that it's how I feel about the blogosphere sometimes. I'm currently in a phase where I have more clarity and realize I'm over-consuming information reading blog after blog after blog (as good as many are, especially yours) because I feel compelled to or I may miss something.

    What I really should be doing is creating more meaningful work but instead I keep returning to blogs to be entertained. The same goes for reading news all the time.

    Thanks for the kick on the side of the head reminding me to get a move on.

    • http://www.skylinetradeshowtips.com/ Michael Thimmesch

      John,

      So, getting out of the matrix is creating rather than consuming? When you are creating, you are being proactive, rather than just soaking up whatever the matrix is coddling you in?

      • http://johnmclachlan.posterous.com John McLachlan

        Exactly. Being a creator is very different from being a consumer of everything. Finding a better mix where I create more than I consume is my goal. It’s my way of getting out of the Matrix.

      • http://johnmclachlan.posterous.com John McLachlan

        Exactly. Being a creator is very different from being a consumer of everything. Finding a better mix where I create more than I consume is my goal. It’s my way of getting out of the Matrix.

    • http://www.skylinetradeshowtips.com/ Michael Thimmesch

      John,

      So, getting out of the matrix is creating rather than consuming? When you are creating, you are being proactive, rather than just soaking up whatever the matrix is coddling you in?

  • Lynn Black

    I've often seen a correlation between modern day “life” and films like The Matrix. Man hopes in a better way of life and perhaps that explains the success of Gene Roddenberry's Star Trek saga.

    We don't need any more worthless “idols” when a REAL “hero” was sent. All we need is to believe!

    Daniel 8:12-13, 25: “BECAUSE of REBELLION….TRUTH was thrown to the grounds…the rebellion that causes DESOLATION (the absence of YAHveh's presence)…He will casue DECEIT to PROSPER.”

    Jeremiah 6:16, “Thus saith the YAHveh, Stand ye in the ways, and see, and ask for the old paths, where is the good way, and walk therein, and ye shall find rest for your souls. But they said, We will not walk therein.”

    John 8:31-33, “Then said YAHshua to those Jews which believed on him, If ye continue in my word, then are ye my disciples indeed; And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.”

  • http://www.colttrickle.com Adam

    People getting upset about little things that don't matter in the big picture….never. You are spot on with that. Maybe if people would figure out what they really want out of life, they would spend less time getting upset about things they cannot control.

    I had a coach at a very young age tell me…”Worry about the things you control and let everything else go.” I try to continue to use that in my everyday life (easier said than done). Great post.

  • http://dannybrown.me Danny Brown

    But surely “getting bent out of shape” is rebelling against the norm, as it shows folks are willing to stand up for their beliefs?

    So for them, it is having an effect, no? Do something rather than nothing. I've watched you get bent out of shape at airlines often enough – are you saying you shouldn't because you can't really change their policies?

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      Sure, get angry, but do you think avatars are anger? I think that’s the real point. I’m saying, why use your anger up on an invisible channel?

      • http://dannybrown.me Danny Brown

        But is Twitter (or similar) really “invisible”?

        A lot of folks have attributed Obama’s win to how well he integrated social with traditional, and made his policies a lot more visible on platforms people are comfortable on.

        CNN has acknowledged that Twitter’s better at breaking news than it is.

        The Blackout avatar to complain against New Zealand internet laws brought the case to the attention of millions worldwide, who then signed a petition that saw the New Zealand government adapt their policy.

        It’s only invisible if folks let it be, or consider it to be.

  • http://www.gospelrhys.co.uk/ Rhys

    Dopey movie? It was a great movie! The latter two sucked though.

    Incidentally, I've taken the purple pill, half red, half blue :)

  • RickCaffeinated

    We're just talking about the first MATRIX movie, right? :) Great metaphor, and it works for career, for family, for anything where we are interacting with people and things around us. How much of our own reality are we responsible for? That's what I pulled from your take here. Thanks for something to chew on today, since “there is no spoon”.

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      There’s only one Matrix movie, Rick. Any reference to “other” Matrix movies just convinces me that you’re an agent. : )

  • http://www.colttrickle.com Adam

    I like the fact of doing something rather than nothing. As long as the something is what you really believe in.

  • http://dannybrown.me Danny Brown

    Agreed. And I'm pretty sure the majority (if not all) the folks with a BP avatar, for instance, believe in their view that BP isn't a company they want to “like”. Same with the folks that got upset with Chris's automated feed.

  • http://www.colttrickle.com Adam

    Agreed.

  • http://twitter.com/beyondpalegal Jorja

    chris, i am prone to think about this on a personal level, as in how we view ourselves. our perspective on other issues, is born there. i think it comes back to simple self-awareness. which is a terribly difficult thing to wrap your head around. i have sat at my office (a.k.a. – my table at starbucks) with my daily roundtable of women, discussing various topics and been amazed at how each of us can be completely unaware of how enmeshed we are in the very issues that we are bemoaning. it is so valuable to step back, to ask ourselves- what makes me so angry about this, am i a part of the problem? am i the problem altogether? it is so very messy to do though and many of us, myself included, can fall into the matrix of thinking we are self-aware, when we aren't. i find it helps to have an outside-looking-in person who can give us an objective eyeball. that voice, that input can at least challenge us on our perspective and then we can choose to see the matrix and fight against it, or we can settle in and keep on truckin'! bottom-line, i want to be a neo! thanks for being an outside eyeball!

    • http://www.cheapshirtsoutletonline.com lacoste outlet online

      Whatever happens is for a reason. Don’t question his/its wisdom.
      This is truly the Matrix at its best/worst.

  • http://www.dogwalkblog.com/ Rufus Dogg

    Cripes! I just got sucked into your matrix, commenting on a blog piece like my opinion will influence you in any way. Did I get the point of your post? :-)

  • http://twitter.com/kyleplacy Kyle Lacy

    I think this evokes the thought of doing things your own way, which will eliminate the feeling of being trapped. When people continue to do the same thing over again yielding the same negative results…the question is why? Why continue to fail when you can step out of the box even if it is a risk….

  • Rob

    There's really only two games (from my perception): (1) NO-GO – which keeps you No-Stuck whereever you go. This is what happens when we begin thinking we are limited with what we can do … and … (2) ASPIRE AND KNOW – which enables you to express your superlatively creative side. This is what we took human form to experience. Just my opinion

  • jasoncrouch

    Chris – When you mentioned watching a movie and feeling pumped up and more accomplished, I couldn't help but think of the Rocky movies. When I was a kid, I still remember leaving those movies feeling invincible.

  • Mark

    Chris, I think most people who change their avatars to boycott BP (I did on Facebook) don't do it as “direct action,” but rather to tell their networks how they stand on that, and moreso to insire their friends to take some kind of action, or at least force them to come to a solid position about how they feel about the company one way or the other.

  • natfinn

    Don't listen to him. He's still sucked into my matrix :-P (jk)

  • natfinn

    One could get caught into a Cartesian hell dissecting their level of reality. It's paradoxical.

    Cogito ergo sum fun.

    I guess the question is, “what level of reality are you ready to accept?”

  • http://bladeronner.com Ron Dawson

    Love your message today Chris. I would point out though that if the physical act of voting for the President as as easy as picking up my cell and texting 6 digits, as opposed to driving to some elementary school, spending 15 min trying to find a parking space, waiting 90 min in line, spending another 15-30 min voting (b/c those ballots are often so confusing), then I would be pretty confident we'd see presidential election numbers rival those of American Idol. Just sayin. :)

  • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

    I guess I can see the “where I stand” answer, but then, is there anyone saying, “I'm so glad BP is fucking up the planet.” I mean, don't we ALL stand on that side? (Not being a jerk. Just asking.)

  • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

    Kinda. : )

  • http://twitter.com/ginarafkind ginarafkind

    Now I finally understand what that movie was all about!! lol, just kidding.
    Really thought provoking – love the comparison of votes for idol to elections.
    Thanks once again for getting me to think and look out of the box.

  • http://www.twitter.com/dibegin Diane Begin

    Another reference to the Matrix…I should probably watch it sometime. The point is good though. I think we complicate things so much sometimes to the point where it becomes our version of real, which is not real at all. And people stand up for what “is right” online all the time, but in the physical world they can't be bothered to dedicate any time to real change.

  • http://www.wildwomannetwork.com SandraLeeSchubert

    I watch the Food Network but don't crack open a cookbook. Yet I am tempted to think I know about food. I watched a diet and exercise show while eating food that was not good for me and thinking I need to lose a little weight. But I did not get up early to walk. I listened to a free teleseries for three weeks and when the last session was just a big sales pitch for a more expensive, more exclusive program I was mad. But I knew that would be the end result and went along willingly. It is so much easier to go back to sleep, to sit on the couch with the remote and to play in the land of social media and count each interaction as a win.

    To your point I think the idea is to realize you may be a willing participant in your current reality. There are some factors that are out of your control but mostly there is a lot more that you could do to wake up your life. If Chris or any one with some influence says try this do I just do it? Or, do I stop and say is this really what I want or need to do at this moment? I just table ideas in a spreadsheet because I could try bright and shiny things at every moment. I am seriously caught in a matrix of my own making but I hope that I have just woken up in the pod realizing I am caught. The next step is a new and different action.

  • http://inculcative.com Inculcative

    Not to get all Biblical again, but you are exactly right. Nothing is as it seems, and you need to look for the pattern outside of the perception to see the “real” realty.

    2 Tim 4:3 states that there are false teachers out there wanting to tickle everyone's ear in accord with their own desires….tickling the ears in itself isn't the bad thing – it's a form of marketing! What makes it tricky and deceiving is the intent….in accord with their own desires.

    Solution:

    Matt 7:20 gives us a great principle to follow…. By their fruits, you can tell what is good & bad, what is false perception and the “real” realty.

    And just like a tree that produces fruit, it might take a little time for tree to grow from it's seedling to see what kind of fruit it produces.

    With your references to “found this neat” article…people can misread that statement, but if they took the time to see what your fruits are all about (all your other works), the misunderstanding would have never really happened.

    What kind of fruit are you producing – is the question that successful people continually ask themselves…

  • Eufémia Santos

    You “mix” different aspects, though, matrix effect as you described exists! In the end you clarify a bit what you mean but nevertheless it is a cumbersome post. Good subject, though!

  • Csmith

    Another timely post from my perspective Chris! I am stuck in some kind of Matrix, and I'm racking my brain to find the right pill to get me out (couldn't resist the movie reference-lol.) I went back through my brainstorming notebook this week, and found that 9 months ago I was thinking the exact same things I'm thinking now- only difference is that I haven't done anything with them, and I was thinking these were new ideas. The definition of insanity is ringing quite true for me right now.

    I'm looking for the game changer, and your words at least validate that it is something I have to do- and soon!

    • http://www.ivanwalsh.com Ivan Walsh

      Go offline for a week! Try it and see…

    • http://www.ivanwalsh.com Ivan Walsh

      Go offline for a week! Try it and see…

  • http://www.businessformartialarts.com MattWilliamson

    I've never posted here before, but I have to comment on one nitpick thing. This is something I get really mad about: More people do not vote for American Idol than the president. It has never happened and it never will!

    There were more VOTES for American Idol, but not more VOTERS.

    Voters are unique in the USA and you can only vote once. Votes in American Idol are NOT unique. 100 voters could rack up 60 million votes with robo-dialers!

    It's like focusing on your website's hit count rather than unique visitors. If one person is coming to your site over and over and over again, great! But if that's the ONLY person coming, then who cares?

    • http://potential2success.com Ralph

      That makes sense. Thanks for clarifying.

    • http://potential2success.com Ralph

      That makes sense. Thanks for clarifying.

  • http://www.businessformartialarts.com MattWilliamson

    By the way, my previous post was a tongue-in-cheek example of getting bent out of shape for no reason! :)

    It's the most minor thing about the entire story and yet that happens every day. People miss the big picture ALL the time and focus on the smallest, stupidest details. I see it in my work and businesses every day. Frankly, there are just so many people that look for details to quibble over, which is why committees are SO popular in large corporations. It's not just marketers that have this problem!

  • https://www.BeSociable.Me curtbuthman

    Nicely Put,

    I'm afraid I'm just a cog in the machine! Marketer by trade.

    But watching my clients go down in a haze of rerun-promotions because they haven't beat their control and too afraid to fail for fear of loosing their job.

    Thanks

  • http://twitter.com/ElizabethPShugg Elizabeth Shugg

    The law of attraction obliterates the Matrix. Like = like. Decide what you want, commit yourself to it, then go after it. The matrix doesn't stand a chance against the power of thought.

  • http://twitter.com/ElizabethPShugg Elizabeth Shugg

    Excellent points, Chris. The law of attraction obliterates the Matrix. Like = like. Decide what you want, commit yourself to it, then go after it. The matrix doesn't stand a chance against the power of thought.

  • http://salesplaybook.blogspot.com/ paulcastain

    To your point, perhaps its time that we all “take the red pill” by asking “Why?” and even dare I say “Why not?”

    Thanks Chris!

    Respectfully,
    Paul Castain

  • http://www.joemanna.com/blog/ Joseph Manna

    My takeaway from this narrative is that you should always question the model, authority or sense of boundaries around you. I particularly enjoy how to made comparisons from The Matrix to the political process and even corporate jobs. It's all a game of control and it's your responsibility to hack it.

    ~joe

  • http://www.simplestartguru.com Joey

    Brogan…I like the site, but you need a song. I just caught myself signing “Maaaan on the go” and it would fit for your site, you know what I mean? Sorry my typing song is out of pitch, but you get my point.

  • http://toddrjordan.com/thebroadbrush tojosan

    I swear between you and Seth I'm beginning to feel like a stuck in the Matrix sloth. Ha.

    This hits home when I realize the difficulty of changing the standard corporate cube environment.

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