Cultivating a Writing Habit

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I’m writing a book with Julien Smith. Since starting the project, both Julien and I have realized that it’s a lot harder to write a book than blog posts. It takes a whole different kind of discipline than what I do when I write blogs. It’s a lot harder. Because of this, and because people asked me about my writing habits, I thought I’d share a bit about the process I use. This might be useful. It might be a waste of your time. Depends what I do that synchs with what you do. Writing is as personal and varied as most things worth doing in life. Your mileage will vary.

My Writing DNA

Before we get into this, a bit of DNA. I’ve been writing in some form or another since grade school. I’ve wanted to be a writer my entire life. I learned how to read early, starting with Stuart Little, Charlotte’s Web, and The Trumpet and the Swan, and then rapidly into comic books. I’ve read voraciously since I can really remember. I still get through more than two books a week, even in busy times. I read a sampling of over 700 blogs a day.

I’ve written since forever, and in high school, I started getting awards. I won the National Council of Teacher’s of English award. I won a spot at the Breadloaf Young Writer’s Convention at Middlebury College (where Robert Frost taught). I have written daily for decades at this point.

All this to say it’s not like I just showed up at the playground and was Michael Jordan. I’ve been at this a while. Your mileage will vary. But that’s okay.

The Formula: Read, Write, Write- Part 1: Read

First stop in learning how to write more, write better, write effectively is to read. Read all the time. Read for hours a day if you can. Can’t find the time? Kill your television. Kill some of your video game playing (some). Kill other distractions. Reading is a super power. The more you learn from reading, the more you can improve tons of areas of your life. But what you also do is learn how others write, and you can use that.

Let’s stop there. There’s a difference between just reading and reading to understand how a writer works it. Want to learn magic? Get Made to Stick by the Heaths. Learn HOW they make the book so interesting. Not the ideas, but HOW they write it. Read Freakonomics and learn how storytelling makes a book into a killer bestseller. Read every Seth book (well, except for Meatball).

Want to know three fiction books that broke me down and turned me into everything I could be?

Shipping news taught me brevity. Fight Club taught me how not to pull a punch. Slapboxing taught me how to really pull raw emotions out of the air. Does this help my nonfiction writing? You bet it does.

The Formula: Read, Write, Write- Part 2: Write

People ask me how I write so much. One trick is that I write all day long. Not always with paper. Not always with a computer. But I’m always writing. If you and I are having coffee and my eyes glaze for a second, I’m probably thinking about how something might be worded, or I just got a new topic idea for a blog post. When I’m reading, I’m thinking about writing. When I’m at the gym, I’m thinking about posts. When I’m working on something entirely different, I’m also writing. When I’m writing, I’m writing something else.

Distracting? Sure. Whatever. Get used to distractions. If you don’t, you’re doomed. Truly. There’s nothing BUT a signal-to-noise ratio. And while you try and cut noise to perfect signal, I’m finding the hidden patterns. Learn how to surf noise and you’ll learn how to jump gates.

So, lesson two is to write all day. Only, this writing I’m talking about is the kind that doesn’t actually land anywhere. It just means that your mind is primed for those moments where you get a moment to write.

The Formula: Read, Write, Write- Part 3: Write

I write daily. I write emails. I write thousands of words 140 characters at a time into Twitter. I write proposals. I write blog posts (hey, here’s a blog post!). I write for the book with Julien. (Of these, the last is the hardest, but only because I’m afraid. Books are so… forever.) Writing begets writing.

Once you get into a steady diet, you don’t fall off the wagon for much of anything.

To write, think about structures. If it’s a blog post, is it a long one, a short one, a list, a what? If it’s writing for your big book, how are you going to structure things? Julien and I did our book in six major chapters, with a few minor bookend chapters to set the concepts up. Once we had that structure, we filled in each chapter with our mindset on every main point.

So, we’d name a chapter after a major theme in our book, and then we’d write what we could think about to support it. We’d write it in no particular order, and then try organizing it once the chapter was almost finished. That way, we’d go back in and do transitions to make for better readability.

Structures, even if atypical, are your saving grace in knowing how to write what you want to cover. My blog posts have a structure. I write a paragraph that leads you into the post. I lead with the major stuff. I build on that. I end with a question or three to get you talking. Every time. Go back and read 10 of my posts. Take them apart. You’ll see.

Get in, Get Your Hands Dirty

Writing isn’t an “I should start doing that” kind of endeavor. Just start somewhere. Stop somewhere. Look around. One last book plug: On Writing by Stephen King. The first half is more like an auto-biography. Interesting, but you don’t actually need it. The second time I bought this book, I started at the writing section, ripped the book apart there, and duct taped the cover back on, thus making it the book I wanted. You can do that, too.

King basically teaches you to stop being such a sissy and just start writing. It’s tough love writing lessons, that’s for sure. But you know what? Writers need that more than not. The writers who need gentle writing are doing it for therapy, not business.

Writing has made me a better speaker. Writing is why I’m a businessman. Writing is how I interpret the world. Others make music. Others paint. Others create code. Me? I communicate. It’s what drives everything forward for me.

Does This Help?

How does this influence your thoughts on writing? Did you see anything in there that reminds you of you? What else can I answer for you?

You know the drill.

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  • http://www.thestrump.com TStrump

    Now, that I’ve started blogging, I always have ideas running in my head and they appear in the strangest places – on the bus, out for a walk, etc.
    The only thing that annoys me is proofreading – no matter how many times I reread my content, I always find ANOTHER mistake.

  • http://chrisbrogan.com chrisbrogan

    @Meg Roberts – thank you so very much for leaving a comment. I love when you share your thoughts.

    @Everyone Else – I’m really grateful for your time and attention. It was a long post, but I’m glad that you got something out of it. It was a good post for me to write, personally. I’m grateful.

  • http://chrisbrogan.com chrisbrogan

    @Meg Roberts – thank you so very much for leaving a comment. I love when you share your thoughts.

    @Everyone Else – I’m really grateful for your time and attention. It was a long post, but I’m glad that you got something out of it. It was a good post for me to write, personally. I’m grateful.

  • Gina Kay Landis

    Chris,
    I am often agog at your writing.

    And yes, your experiences remind me of mine in regards to reading and writing. I am an avid and very fast reader and remember nearly everything (except I goofed up the title of Shel Israel’s book, d’oh). Never quite got into comics except the ones acceptable to females (I’m a bit older) way back when. But oh yeah… I read all I could as often as I could. And self-study versus going to college has served me well, too. Much of my extraneous knowledge was gained due to simple curiosity about all sorts of things. From organic gardening to solar power to lawn treatment chemicals to anatomy and physiology of cats and bugs and people, I have retained that knowledge and regularly bore folks with it who dare to listen =). It’s fun!

    People who write look at the world a bit differently. Ideas are often spawned by very small incidences and then grow into whatever they become. If written, they remain for ever or for a moment. If unwritten, they pop out at odd times or during those precious writing moments if one’s life is not geared to write all the day. Writing when you can and should or even when you shouldn’t snare a piece of time to write is a freedom experience I wouldn’t do without.

    The best book I read solely on writing was “Writing down the bones” by Natalie Goldberg. Her revealing book that taught the discipline and the freedom of writing, and also cautioned writers not to use their status as “writers” to gain any favors or special treatment, was written 20 years ago and is still relevant. It made me exercise my writing skills where much of my writing had remained in my head for some time while holding down several jobs at a time.

    The next book I read that fed me in a life-way was “How to dance forever – surviving against the odds” by Daniel Nagrin. His book was filled with raw imagry and raw emotion and gave me a similar feeling as did Goldberg’s book. Encouragement to use your creativity even while feeling hampered by fear or time constraints or whatever other snag you’ve let grab you is pure gold.

    @ginakay

  • Gina Kay Landis

    Chris,
    I am often agog at your writing.

    And yes, your experiences remind me of mine in regards to reading and writing. I am an avid and very fast reader and remember nearly everything (except I goofed up the title of Shel Israel’s book, d’oh). Never quite got into comics except the ones acceptable to females (I’m a bit older) way back when. But oh yeah… I read all I could as often as I could. And self-study versus going to college has served me well, too. Much of my extraneous knowledge was gained due to simple curiosity about all sorts of things. From organic gardening to solar power to lawn treatment chemicals to anatomy and physiology of cats and bugs and people, I have retained that knowledge and regularly bore folks with it who dare to listen =). It’s fun!

    People who write look at the world a bit differently. Ideas are often spawned by very small incidences and then grow into whatever they become. If written, they remain for ever or for a moment. If unwritten, they pop out at odd times or during those precious writing moments if one’s life is not geared to write all the day. Writing when you can and should or even when you shouldn’t snare a piece of time to write is a freedom experience I wouldn’t do without.

    The best book I read solely on writing was “Writing down the bones” by Natalie Goldberg. Her revealing book that taught the discipline and the freedom of writing, and also cautioned writers not to use their status as “writers” to gain any favors or special treatment, was written 20 years ago and is still relevant. It made me exercise my writing skills where much of my writing had remained in my head for some time while holding down several jobs at a time.

    The next book I read that fed me in a life-way was “How to dance forever – surviving against the odds” by Daniel Nagrin. His book was filled with raw imagry and raw emotion and gave me a similar feeling as did Goldberg’s book. Encouragement to use your creativity even while feeling hampered by fear or time constraints or whatever other snag you’ve let grab you is pure gold.

    @ginakay

  • Gina Kay Landis

    addendum (I did finally go to college in my 30′s and that was heaven – read, read, read, write, write, write – woo hoo!).

  • Gina Kay Landis

    addendum (I did finally go to college in my 30′s and that was heaven – read, read, read, write, write, write – woo hoo!).

  • Steve

    I’m new to your blog but I can already tell I’ll be back. I like not only what you have to say but how you say it. Me I’m influenced by everything I’ve ever read, including your blog. (My personal favorite Palahniuk is “Survivor”).

    I’m glad you mentioned “On Writing”. Steve was a big influence on me, not that book particularly but I spent time with him working on a TV show a few years ago. When he found out I write he’s the one that told me to “start writing books”, I’m in the middle of three now (I’ve only ever read two of his, sorry Steve). The man is not just a writer but a word junkie. He has big word jumble books he carries with him everywhere. With in the first two minutes of meeting me he had checked out the book I was reading and the music I was playing and later that day we went and bought him the same…I guess he approved.

    Great insight and informative, I look forward to reading more that you have to share.

  • Steve

    I’m new to your blog but I can already tell I’ll be back. I like not only what you have to say but how you say it. Me I’m influenced by everything I’ve ever read, including your blog. (My personal favorite Palahniuk is “Survivor”).

    I’m glad you mentioned “On Writing”. Steve was a big influence on me, not that book particularly but I spent time with him working on a TV show a few years ago. When he found out I write he’s the one that told me to “start writing books”, I’m in the middle of three now (I’ve only ever read two of his, sorry Steve). The man is not just a writer but a word junkie. He has big word jumble books he carries with him everywhere. With in the first two minutes of meeting me he had checked out the book I was reading and the music I was playing and later that day we went and bought him the same…I guess he approved.

    Great insight and informative, I look forward to reading more that you have to share.

  • http://www.convinceandconvert.com jaybaer

    Chris if you’re not Jordan, I’m not Bill Cartwright.

    However, it was encouraging that you cited many of the same influences that have shaped my own (not yet as prolific) output.

    Made to Stick is priceless. I don’t share the universal man-love for Seth, but his thesis-first approach is great. I agree 1000% on the King book. Had the same reaction (although didn’t rip the book).

    I’d offer a couple of other personal touchstones. I find Bill Bryson to be the absolute best at turning a phrase. He is the master of word selection. I like Cormac McCarthy because he proves you can write a sentence like “The man went to the door.” and have it drip with meaning.

    Although I find his current politics don’t sync with my own, I’ve always cribbed from Dennis Miller in the reliance on simile and metaphor when I’m really rolling.

    Also glad that we share a NCTE trophy. I remember writing that essay like it was yesterday.

  • http://www.convinceandconvert.com Jason Baer

    Chris if you’re not Jordan, I’m not Bill Cartwright.

    However, it was encouraging that you cited many of the same influences that have shaped my own (not yet as prolific) output.

    Made to Stick is priceless. I don’t share the universal man-love for Seth, but his thesis-first approach is great. I agree 1000% on the King book. Had the same reaction (although didn’t rip the book).

    I’d offer a couple of other personal touchstones. I find Bill Bryson to be the absolute best at turning a phrase. He is the master of word selection. I like Cormac McCarthy because he proves you can write a sentence like “The man went to the door.” and have it drip with meaning.

    Although I find his current politics don’t sync with my own, I’ve always cribbed from Dennis Miller in the reliance on simile and metaphor when I’m really rolling.

    Also glad that we share a NCTE trophy. I remember writing that essay like it was yesterday.

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  • http://writeforyourlife.net Iain Broome

    Potentially, there’s a double-edged sword element to writing all day. It could lead to writing fatigue, for example, where you simply don’t have the energy or inclination once the real ideas arrive.

    However, like you, I find that writing all day (as a full-time copywriter) usually helps me to write my fiction or blog posts when I get home. It’s a tough balance, but it’s quite possible to manage your writing effectively and quite literally, write all day.

  • http://writeforyourlife.net Iain Broome

    Potentially, there’s a double-edged sword element to writing all day. It could lead to writing fatigue, for example, where you simply don’t have the energy or inclination once the real ideas arrive.

    However, like you, I find that writing all day (as a full-time copywriter) usually helps me to write my fiction or blog posts when I get home. It’s a tough balance, but it’s quite possible to manage your writing effectively and quite literally, write all day.

  • Anonymous

    My mentor used to call it the monkey mind – that mental block that prevents you from forming the words that are at the tip of your mind. It’s odd, as a journalism major, I hated writing what others assigned me, but I’ve found that post-graduation I actually miss it because I no longer have a drive to write at the end of the day because I’m not being forced to write during the day. I felt the writing fatigue, but I’m starting to get back into the swing of things and that pen has never felt so “write” in my hand.

    PS My notebook is my security blanket, even when I had nothing to say. Or as my former boss called it “the ramblings of a mad white woman.”

    cheers

  • Meg

    My mentor used to call it the monkey mind – that mental block that prevents you from forming the words that are at the tip of your mind. It’s odd, as a journalism major, I hated writing what others assigned me, but I’ve found that post-graduation I actually miss it because I no longer have a drive to write at the end of the day because I’m not being forced to write during the day. I felt the writing fatigue, but I’m starting to get back into the swing of things and that pen has never felt so “write” in my hand.

    PS My notebook is my security blanket, even when I had nothing to say. Or as my former boss called it “the ramblings of a mad white woman.”

    cheers

  • http://www.darinmichaelshaw.com Darin

    Thanks for a great and practical post. Do you have any tips for organization of all of your writing? My cluttered hard drive, stacks of notebooks, coctail napkins and scraps of paper lead me to believe this is an area I need to give attention.

    I’m thrilled to have found your blog. Thanks!

  • http://www.darinmichaelshaw.com Darin

    Thanks for a great and practical post. Do you have any tips for organization of all of your writing? My cluttered hard drive, stacks of notebooks, coctail napkins and scraps of paper lead me to believe this is an area I need to give attention.

    I’m thrilled to have found your blog. Thanks!

  • julie kay

    Having written since I could write (!) I chickened out on myself 20 years ago and began writing for advertising agencies and corporations…that paid the bills. Now, I feel like I bastardized my writing talent. How do I get back to the true bone of writing? Everytime I start something, I play marketing guru and ask myself what’s the objective, who is the audience…? Stop. I want to write the good stuff again.

  • julie kay

    Having written since I could write (!) I chickened out on myself 20 years ago and began writing for advertising agencies and corporations…that paid the bills. Now, I feel like I bastardized my writing talent. How do I get back to the true bone of writing? Everytime I start something, I play marketing guru and ask myself what’s the objective, who is the audience…? Stop. I want to write the good stuff again.

  • http://www.innnotes.blogspot.com Innkeeper

    I write mostly non-fiction & tech articles and poetry. I do a lot of teaching, consulting and editing on a wide variety of writing projects. To me, the most important qualities in good non-fiction writing are: flow, clarity and conciseness. Reading extensively is helpful to writers when it comes to content and developing style and an authentic voice. It also exposes them to a variety of models, so they can become aware of what works and what doesn’t.

    One way I have found that works with my students is to break the writing process down like so: brainstorm (verbally or on paper), write, and rewrite, rewrite, rewrite; the rewriting or editing being of utmost importance. Reading aloud or having someone else read your writing aloud or proof read it for clarity and coherence can also be helpful.

    I am also a musician and I believe ( as Mary Ray does) that this is an advantage when it comes to injecting rhythm, tonality and color into my writing. This is accomplished by combining words and sentences in very specific ways. I play with them on the page and move them around, until I find the most interesting and effective ways of using them. And I certainly agree with Amber Naslund (an admirable writer) when she says writing must flow on the page. With me, sometimes, it gushes and I have to exercise some conscious control to rein it in, especially if it’s 3:00 in the morning.

    Writing on twitter is much harder for me than writing on my blog, because I don’t get that wonderful open, flowing feeling I get from writing larger pieces. Twitter feels all choppy and disjointed to me. I hope I get over that. I’ve only been doing it a few days. I want to like it more.

  • http://www.innnotes.blogspot.com Innkeeper

    I write mostly non-fiction & tech articles and poetry. I do a lot of teaching, consulting and editing on a wide variety of writing projects. To me, the most important qualities in good non-fiction writing are: flow, clarity and conciseness. Reading extensively is helpful to writers when it comes to content and developing style and an authentic voice. It also exposes them to a variety of models, so they can become aware of what works and what doesn’t.

    One way I have found that works with my students is to break the writing process down like so: brainstorm (verbally or on paper), write, and rewrite, rewrite, rewrite; the rewriting or editing being of utmost importance. Reading aloud or having someone else read your writing aloud or proof read it for clarity and coherence can also be helpful.

    I am also a musician and I believe ( as Mary Ray does) that this is an advantage when it comes to injecting rhythm, tonality and color into my writing. This is accomplished by combining words and sentences in very specific ways. I play with them on the page and move them around, until I find the most interesting and effective ways of using them. And I certainly agree with Amber Naslund (an admirable writer) when she says writing must flow on the page. With me, sometimes, it gushes and I have to exercise some conscious control to rein it in, especially if it’s 3:00 in the morning.

    Writing on twitter is much harder for me than writing on my blog, because I don’t get that wonderful open, flowing feeling I get from writing larger pieces. Twitter feels all choppy and disjointed to me. I hope I get over that. I’ve only been doing it a few days. I want to like it more.

  • Steve

    You want inspiration to write then read “The Diving Bell and the Butterfly” by Jean-Dominique Bauby. I just finished it last night and under any circumstances it was a well written memoir. When you understand that Bauby at 44 had a massive stroke and was completely paralyzed with only the ability to move his left eye. That he wrote with someone reciting letters till he heard the one he wanted and blinked yes for every word one letter at a time is astounding.
    The book was written over two months and edited in 2 weeks. That should be a kick in the butt to anyone that thinks they can’t do it themselves.
    Now go write something people.

  • Steve

    You want inspiration to write then read “The Diving Bell and the Butterfly” by Jean-Dominique Bauby. I just finished it last night and under any circumstances it was a well written memoir. When you understand that Bauby at 44 had a massive stroke and was completely paralyzed with only the ability to move his left eye. That he wrote with someone reciting letters till he heard the one he wanted and blinked yes for every word one letter at a time is astounding.
    The book was written over two months and edited in 2 weeks. That should be a kick in the butt to anyone that thinks they can’t do it themselves.
    Now go write something people.

  • http://blog.budgetpulse.com/ Craig

    @Steve I never read the book but the movie was excellent. Really makes you wonder the things you can do it you really put your mind to it, cause especially in that case, that’s all you need.

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  • http://blog.budgetpulse.com/ Craig

    @Steve I never read the book but the movie was excellent. Really makes you wonder the things you can do it you really put your mind to it, cause especially in that case, that’s all you need.

  • Steve

    Hey Craig,
    Like you I saw the film first but was intrigued when I found out it was based on a book that Bauby wrote himself. The book quite literally gets you in his head and is worth finding.
    Cheers

  • Steve

    Hey Craig,
    Like you I saw the film first but was intrigued when I found out it was based on a book that Bauby wrote himself. The book quite literally gets you in his head and is worth finding.
    Cheers

  • http://saschai.literalseduction.net Sascha Illyvich

    Writing in general is formulaic, but yes if you don’t even begin by putting text onto a page, you’ll never have anything to edit.

    Glad to see me mentioned here :) Good luck!

  • http://saschai.literalseduction.net Sascha Illyvich

    Writing in general is formulaic, but yes if you don’t even begin by putting text onto a page, you’ll never have anything to edit.

    Glad to see me mentioned here :) Good luck!

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  • Bindu Muralidharan

    Really interesting piece of information. I never knew that we could look at the art of writing in this sense too. It definitely makes us realise how other writers feel, and indentify with their character. Thnks… please post more such info.

  • Bindu Muralidharan

    Really interesting piece of information. I never knew that we could look at the art of writing in this sense too. It definitely makes us realise how other writers feel, and indentify with their character. Thnks… please post more such info.

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  • http://blogs.ibibo.com/40plus Srijit

    Dear Chris,

    Myself staying at Kolkata,India.Love writing……in fact nurture a dream to make it big in future by ,as others say, earning thru blogging.At present unemployed.please suggest something immediately like some good,easy topics to blog .

    Regards……………srijit

  • http://blogs.ibibo.com/40plus Srijit

    Dear Chris,

    Myself staying at Kolkata,India.Love writing……in fact nurture a dream to make it big in future by ,as others say, earning thru blogging.At present unemployed.please suggest something immediately like some good,easy topics to blog .

    Regards……………srijit

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  • http://www.eldercarecafe.net Edie

    Chris, good points! Writing is a must if we want to learn to write. Just like learning to play a musical instrument or participating in sports. Practice makes perfect. There is a huge difference in writing a blog and writing a book. Congrats on going that next step. I agree with the comments about the Stephen King book – two things impressed me, and that is how much he writes every day, and that he reads every evening rather than watch TV. We only need to look to his productivity and success to know that we need to turn off the TV and develop the discipline necessary to produce more words. I wish you the best on your book and your continued success. I am bookmarking this site.

  • http://www.eldercarecafe.net Edie

    Chris, good points! Writing is a must if we want to learn to write. Just like learning to play a musical instrument or participating in sports. Practice makes perfect. There is a huge difference in writing a blog and writing a book. Congrats on going that next step. I agree with the comments about the Stephen King book – two things impressed me, and that is how much he writes every day, and that he reads every evening rather than watch TV. We only need to look to his productivity and success to know that we need to turn off the TV and develop the discipline necessary to produce more words. I wish you the best on your book and your continued success. I am bookmarking this site.

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  • http://www.redcentaur.com/ Redcentaur

    Practice makes perfect – or at least as close to perfection as one person can get. Whether practice equals sitting with a keyboard or a pad and pen, or it equals staring into space thinking about how something could be phrased; it's all the same. How true…. I need some more practice!

  • http://misterthorne.org/ Thorne

    So . . . how about your thoughts on working with an editor?

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