Serving Suggestions

breakfastWhat would you like for dinner? The very question throws open a lot of possibilities, and it requires that you give it thought. Even if you settle on a cuisine — Thai, for instance — are you going to try a noodle dish, or sticky rice? Pork or seafood? We could do this all night, couldn’t we?

In the restaurant business, you can always tell a professional server by their drink offer, or their dessert offer. An average server will open with, “What can I get you to drink?” A pro will ask you, “How does a Grey Goose martini sound?” The difference is vast. One is an open-ended stream; the other is a yes-or-no question. Even if you don’t want a Grey Goose martini (and that’s not my drink of choice), it usually jolts you into answering with the drink you do want, without that open-ended feeling.

By the way, is it any surprise I’d choose to hire Justin Levy and Colin Browning to work with me at New Marketing Labs. Justin owns a restaurant and Colin is an accomplished barbecue cook.

Always Recommend

One factor in my professional career that I believe has given me the most success is something I learned from one of my first great bosses, Dave Johnson from NYNEX (now Verizon). Dave never wanted me to bring him a problem. He wanted me to bring him one or two recommended solutions to a problem.

As best as I can, this is something I practice all the time in business.

By learning reasonably early that recommending solutions was way better received than asking for answers, I started down a road that has, so far, been really darned successful. You can do the same thing. It only takes a little bit of thought each time.

Narrow Things Down

Menus. Restaurants have menus. Now, technically, a decent chef can cook plenty of things with the right ingredients and tools. But smart restaurants build menus around things they know they can successfully sell, around things they know their customer base likes, and around things that can set them apart from other local restaurants.

Do you have a menu? Is it small enough for your customers to pick from? If you were a server, would you have the right drink by name that would spark your guest’s interest?

Write a Great Menu

I went to a restaurant in Billings, Montana, that turns out to be a chain. Famous Dave’s is an award-winning barbecue restaurant, with a menu containing such writing as, “Georgia Chopped Pork: Smoked for up to 8 hours and chopped to order, our BBQ-slathered pork is juicier than a Georgia peach.”

What I like about everything on the menu (see it all here is that every choice seems like a good one, if that’s what you’re hungry for. A great menu, and by extension, an excellent server, makes you feel like you’ve selected exactly the right meal for the night.

Does your business communication do that?

A Neighborhood Feel

I wrote a little while back about my experience at Applebees. I’ve also written about cafe-shaped businesses. What I’m getting at is that the biggest opportunity these social media tools permits us is the choice to be a homey feeling restaurant, like a family kitchen, instead of a cold chain experience. It’s up to us to keep that feeling in mind.

Is your restaurant – or your online presence – inviting? Do you have room for people to gather around? Is your kitchen a showplace, or just a mechanized delivery system? If you’re the chef or the owner, do you circulate around the tables and talk to your guests? What are they enjoying? How can you better serve them?

And, what’s for dessert?

Finish Strong

At dinner the other night (also in Billings, Montana, where my clients took me to four different amazing restaurants), the servers forgot to clear the dishes the moment we were done eating. This left a dozen or so people talking around the bones of our meals. It was uncomfortable. We all were aware. And it was one of those situations where it seemed every server in the restaurant vanished at once.

It’s a little thing, but it’s a big thing, and that came right before the bill, where we decide on the value of our server’s contributions.

In business, always finish strong. The dining experience doesn’t end with the delicious main course. It ends when the guests have left the restaurant and all the business in between the first lifting of a fork until the car door shuts is still yours to win.

Remember, we want them coming back.

And now that we’re done, may I ask, how was your dining experience?

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  • http://www.cindymassage.blogspot.com Cindy

    @Deirdre @chrisbrogan I was in sales and I’m a mom –never been a waitress. But since I’ve been involved int social media I’ve learned simple etiquette in real life that I never was taught growing up. LOL.

    I’m nicer now. And my tantrums aren’t as scary to passers-by.

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  • http://www.ahouse4dom.com Ashtyn

    Interesting discussion comparing a food menu/cuisine choice to business. Developing a menu in this household can be difficult. Some members of the household are visual. They have to see what we have to offer in the kitchen before they can decide on a meal plan. The same can be said of finding the solution to a business problem. You need to visualize the possible solutions, and you never know, the solution might be right in front of you.

    This post has given me a lot to think about.

    P.S. I was a waitress for years, and one of the best at my job. It might just give me the edge at this business thing now that I’m no longer in the food industry!

  • http://www.ahouse4dom.com Ashtyn

    Interesting discussion comparing a food menu/cuisine choice to business. Developing a menu in this household can be difficult. Some members of the household are visual. They have to see what we have to offer in the kitchen before they can decide on a meal plan. The same can be said of finding the solution to a business problem. You need to visualize the possible solutions, and you never know, the solution might be right in front of you.

    This post has given me a lot to think about.

    P.S. I was a waitress for years, and one of the best at my job. It might just give me the edge at this business thing now that I’m no longer in the food industry!

  • http://www.ahouse4dom.com Ashtyn

    Interesting discussion comparing a food menu/cuisine choice to business. Developing a menu in this household can be difficult. Some members of the household are visual. They have to see what we have to offer in the kitchen before they can decide on a meal plan. The same can be said of finding the solution to a business problem. You need to visualize the possible solutions, and you never know, the solution might be right in front of you.

    This post has given me a lot to think about.

    P.S. I was a waitress for years, and one of the best at my job. It might just give me the edge at this business thing now that I’m no longer in the food industry!

  • Jill Mullin

    Great post. I am a sever turned account person and I often credit restaurants for teaching me everything I know about business. A restaurant lesson of mine that parlays into business and social media:
    Appearance is Everything!
    Iron your shirt, clean your fingernails, keep your hair back and don’t smell like smoke. Who wants a dirty waiter serving them dinner? A servers appearance is crucial to your dining experience. Much like the appearance of your website, office and even your employees (certainly the client facing ones) is critical to your business experience. It’s not shallow, it’s human nature. People like to be around nice looking things. Clean, organized and visually appealing will always beat out messy, wrinkled and stained. Packaging is everything.

  • Jill Mullin

    Great post. I am a sever turned account person and I often credit restaurants for teaching me everything I know about business. A restaurant lesson of mine that parlays into business and social media:
    Appearance is Everything!
    Iron your shirt, clean your fingernails, keep your hair back and don’t smell like smoke. Who wants a dirty waiter serving them dinner? A servers appearance is crucial to your dining experience. Much like the appearance of your website, office and even your employees (certainly the client facing ones) is critical to your business experience. It’s not shallow, it’s human nature. People like to be around nice looking things. Clean, organized and visually appealing will always beat out messy, wrinkled and stained. Packaging is everything.

  • Jill Mullin

    Great post. I am a sever turned account person and I often credit restaurants for teaching me everything I know about business. A restaurant lesson of mine that parlays into business and social media:
    Appearance is Everything!
    Iron your shirt, clean your fingernails, keep your hair back and don’t smell like smoke. Who wants a dirty waiter serving them dinner? A servers appearance is crucial to your dining experience. Much like the appearance of your website, office and even your employees (certainly the client facing ones) is critical to your business experience. It’s not shallow, it’s human nature. People like to be around nice looking things. Clean, organized and visually appealing will always beat out messy, wrinkled and stained. Packaging is everything.

  • http://twitter.com/lucasng Lucas Ng

    In the food business, a lot of [egotistical] chefs make the fatal mistake of deciding to serve what they think people should eat, not what people _want_ to eat. Big difference.

    My parents owned a classic Chinese mom-and-pop takeaway for over 25 years while new, “cool & hip” joints kept opening up with their trendy fusion inspired food (or whatever the era’s fad food was, currently its tapas) and just as quickly shut down.

    My parents understood exactly what hungry people wanted. They culled the items that they loved but the regulars never bought. They created word-of-mouth buzz for new menu items. They did the little things that became our takeaway joint’s unique selling point: Remembering the names of every regular. Giving free drinks and prawn crackers to big spenders. Sending the regulars a bottle of wine at Christmas with a simple handwritten note. Service with a smile.

    Heck, my parents didn’t have to do any of this as Australia does not have a big tipping culture, but I reckon they could teach the best of us online marketers a thing or two about marketing and hospitality!

  • http://twitter.com/lucasng Lucas Ng

    In the food business, a lot of [egotistical] chefs make the fatal mistake of deciding to serve what they think people should eat, not what people _want_ to eat. Big difference.

    My parents owned a classic Chinese mom-and-pop takeaway for over 25 years while new, “cool & hip” joints kept opening up with their trendy fusion inspired food (or whatever the era’s fad food was, currently its tapas) and just as quickly shut down.

    My parents understood exactly what hungry people wanted. They culled the items that they loved but the regulars never bought. They created word-of-mouth buzz for new menu items. They did the little things that became our takeaway joint’s unique selling point: Remembering the names of every regular. Giving free drinks and prawn crackers to big spenders. Sending the regulars a bottle of wine at Christmas with a simple handwritten note. Service with a smile.

    Heck, my parents didn’t have to do any of this as Australia does not have a big tipping culture, but I reckon they could teach the best of us online marketers a thing or two about marketing and hospitality!

  • http://twitter.com/lucasng Lucas Ng

    In the food business, a lot of [egotistical] chefs make the fatal mistake of deciding to serve what they think people should eat, not what people _want_ to eat. Big difference.

    My parents owned a classic Chinese mom-and-pop takeaway for over 25 years while new, “cool & hip” joints kept opening up with their trendy fusion inspired food (or whatever the era’s fad food was, currently its tapas) and just as quickly shut down.

    My parents understood exactly what hungry people wanted. They culled the items that they loved but the regulars never bought. They created word-of-mouth buzz for new menu items. They did the little things that became our takeaway joint’s unique selling point: Remembering the names of every regular. Giving free drinks and prawn crackers to big spenders. Sending the regulars a bottle of wine at Christmas with a simple handwritten note. Service with a smile.

    Heck, my parents didn’t have to do any of this as Australia does not have a big tipping culture, but I reckon they could teach the best of us online marketers a thing or two about marketing and hospitality!

  • http://Www.childsadvertising.com Lawton chiles

    Chris, I had a great conversation with my 77 year old grandmother about cafe-shaped communities. It was a lightbulb moment for both of us-and a whole new way to understand how to win on the Internet by building great conversations

  • http://Www.childsadvertising.com Lawton chiles

    Chris, I had a great conversation with my 77 year old grandmother about cafe-shaped communities. It was a lightbulb moment for both of us-and a whole new way to understand how to win on the Internet by building great conversations

  • http://Www.childsadvertising.com Lawton chiles

    Chris, I had a great conversation with my 77 year old grandmother about cafe-shaped communities. It was a lightbulb moment for both of us-and a whole new way to understand how to win on the Internet by building great conversations

  • http://daveferrick.com Dave Ferrick

    Not to get lost in the allegory but I ran into a perfect example of Finish Strong Saturday night at the Highland Kitchen in Somerville, MA.

    My companion and I ordered an appetizer recommended by the server, however when she returned with it, it was the wrong plate. It took us a few seconds to absorb this so we needed to call her back over to tell her about it. She took it away sincerely apologetically and the manager (could’ve been owner) returned with the correct appetizer again with sincere apologies. At that point all was more than forgiven in our minds and if asked about the experience, I’d recommend it.

    We finished our appetizer and meals and sat talking over drinks for an hour and when I requested the tab, the waitress brought it over and wished us well. Within the minute, the same manager returned and placed a glass of an Italian Moscato (dessert wine) in front of both me and my date apologizing again for a mistake earlier in the night (probably about 90 minutes removed at this point) and mentioned the wine was “a lovely way to finish a fantastic meal”. Passion for his customers and his product within one small gesture.

    After the first apologetic gesture I’d give a thumbs up for this restaurant if asked for my opinion. Now I make it a point to recommend the Highland Kitchen to friends, family and colleagues.

    P.S. I recommend both the Freeform Mushroom Lasagna and the Braised Pork Shoulder with Smoked Bacon (ludicrously tender)

  • http://daveferrick.com Dave Ferrick

    Not to get lost in the allegory but I ran into a perfect example of Finish Strong Saturday night at the Highland Kitchen in Somerville, MA.

    My companion and I ordered an appetizer recommended by the server, however when she returned with it, it was the wrong plate. It took us a few seconds to absorb this so we needed to call her back over to tell her about it. She took it away sincerely apologetically and the manager (could’ve been owner) returned with the correct appetizer again with sincere apologies. At that point all was more than forgiven in our minds and if asked about the experience, I’d recommend it.

    We finished our appetizer and meals and sat talking over drinks for an hour and when I requested the tab, the waitress brought it over and wished us well. Within the minute, the same manager returned and placed a glass of an Italian Moscato (dessert wine) in front of both me and my date apologizing again for a mistake earlier in the night (probably about 90 minutes removed at this point) and mentioned the wine was “a lovely way to finish a fantastic meal”. Passion for his customers and his product within one small gesture.

    After the first apologetic gesture I’d give a thumbs up for this restaurant if asked for my opinion. Now I make it a point to recommend the Highland Kitchen to friends, family and colleagues.

    P.S. I recommend both the Freeform Mushroom Lasagna and the Braised Pork Shoulder with Smoked Bacon (ludicrously tender)

  • http://daveferrick.com Dave Ferrick

    Not to get lost in the allegory but I ran into a perfect example of Finish Strong Saturday night at the Highland Kitchen in Somerville, MA.

    My companion and I ordered an appetizer recommended by the server, however when she returned with it, it was the wrong plate. It took us a few seconds to absorb this so we needed to call her back over to tell her about it. She took it away sincerely apologetically and the manager (could’ve been owner) returned with the correct appetizer again with sincere apologies. At that point all was more than forgiven in our minds and if asked about the experience, I’d recommend it.

    We finished our appetizer and meals and sat talking over drinks for an hour and when I requested the tab, the waitress brought it over and wished us well. Within the minute, the same manager returned and placed a glass of an Italian Moscato (dessert wine) in front of both me and my date apologizing again for a mistake earlier in the night (probably about 90 minutes removed at this point) and mentioned the wine was “a lovely way to finish a fantastic meal”. Passion for his customers and his product within one small gesture.

    After the first apologetic gesture I’d give a thumbs up for this restaurant if asked for my opinion. Now I make it a point to recommend the Highland Kitchen to friends, family and colleagues.

    P.S. I recommend both the Freeform Mushroom Lasagna and the Braised Pork Shoulder with Smoked Bacon (ludicrously tender)

  • Grant Currie

    Great analogy. Food and business . A man after my own heart.
    Keep up the good work

  • Grant Currie

    Great analogy. Food and business . A man after my own heart.
    Keep up the good work

  • Grant Currie

    Great analogy. Food and business . A man after my own heart.
    Keep up the good work

  • http://www.protekzia.com/ Simon Synett

    Making a recommendation is one thing when the diners are already seated there with a great appetite, because you’re offering a solution to a problem that they know they have.

    But you know how horrible it can be when the restautant has a fellow standing outside and “recommending” the day’s specials to passers by.

    I think it’s one of the most fundamental aspects of any relationship that you don’t answer a question that isn’t being asked. If you know that a client, or your spouse or child for that matter, has a problem that you can solve, you need to invest the time to help them articulate the problem and ask the question. Then you can recommend the solution.

  • http://www.protekzia.com/ Simon Synett

    Making a recommendation is one thing when the diners are already seated there with a great appetite, because you’re offering a solution to a problem that they know they have.

    But you know how horrible it can be when the restautant has a fellow standing outside and “recommending” the day’s specials to passers by.

    I think it’s one of the most fundamental aspects of any relationship that you don’t answer a question that isn’t being asked. If you know that a client, or your spouse or child for that matter, has a problem that you can solve, you need to invest the time to help them articulate the problem and ask the question. Then you can recommend the solution.

  • http://www.protekzia.com/ Simon Synett

    Making a recommendation is one thing when the diners are already seated there with a great appetite, because you’re offering a solution to a problem that they know they have.

    But you know how horrible it can be when the restautant has a fellow standing outside and “recommending” the day’s specials to passers by.

    I think it’s one of the most fundamental aspects of any relationship that you don’t answer a question that isn’t being asked. If you know that a client, or your spouse or child for that matter, has a problem that you can solve, you need to invest the time to help them articulate the problem and ask the question. Then you can recommend the solution.

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  • http://www.socialmediablogster.com Doug Firebaugh

    If we all had the same “menu mentality” with our busineses, as you so aptly described, we all would see dramatic improvements in our results-Finishing strong is the key! thanks for sharing Chris- awesome post and great insight!

  • http://www.socialmediablogster.com Doug Firebaugh

    If we all had the same “menu mentality” with our busineses, as you so aptly described, we all would see dramatic improvements in our results-Finishing strong is the key! thanks for sharing Chris- awesome post and great insight!

  • http://www.socialmediablogster.com Doug Firebaugh

    If we all had the same “menu mentality” with our busineses, as you so aptly described, we all would see dramatic improvements in our results-Finishing strong is the key! thanks for sharing Chris- awesome post and great insight!

  • Stephanie

    You gave me a new appreciation for those dreadful years I spent waiting tables in college! This comparison is simple, something I know well and an approach I can use to improve my peformance and the service I provide for clients. Thank you!

  • Stephanie

    You gave me a new appreciation for those dreadful years I spent waiting tables in college! This comparison is simple, something I know well and an approach I can use to improve my peformance and the service I provide for clients. Thank you!

  • Stephanie

    You gave me a new appreciation for those dreadful years I spent waiting tables in college! This comparison is simple, something I know well and an approach I can use to improve my peformance and the service I provide for clients. Thank you!

  • http://rigpea82.blogspot.com joshself

    Great analogies Chris! As another restaurant industry employee (7+ years) I appreciated the article. I’m actually taking alot of the concepts that I’ve learned over the years in the restaurant industry and applying them to my blogging and wedding photography business. Like someone said previously, its all about reading your customers / guests / clients and customizing your product or service to meet their needs. If you can do that, you win every time!

  • http://rigpea82.blogspot.com joshself

    Great analogies Chris! As another restaurant industry employee (7+ years) I appreciated the article. I’m actually taking alot of the concepts that I’ve learned over the years in the restaurant industry and applying them to my blogging and wedding photography business. Like someone said previously, its all about reading your customers / guests / clients and customizing your product or service to meet their needs. If you can do that, you win every time!

  • http://myweddingphotogblog.blogspot.com/ Josh Self

    Great analogies Chris! As another restaurant industry employee (7+ years) I appreciated the article. I’m actually taking alot of the concepts that I’ve learned over the years in the restaurant industry and applying them to my blogging and wedding photography business. Like someone said previously, its all about reading your customers / guests / clients and customizing your product or service to meet their needs. If you can do that, you win every time!

  • http://www.dentalholiday.co.uk Daniel

    another great post that I can apply to our business in the dental clinic

  • http://www.dentalholiday.co.uk Daniel

    another great post that I can apply to our business in the dental clinic

  • http://www.dentalholiday.co.uk Daniel

    another great post that I can apply to our business in the dental clinic

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