The Bucket Meme

January 8, 2008 · Comments

bucket o frogs Jeff Pulver has tagged me to write a “Bucket List,” as per the popular movie of the same name. Essentially, what are some things you’d want to do if you had X months to live before you kick the bucket. It’s a fun exercise to do, especially if you attempt to live your life based on what you come up with. I’m not promising a thing on what I think I can actually accomplish from this list, but if I had a few months to live, here’s what I’d do:

Travel

I suppose everyone’s bucket list would have travel. It’s just something we say when we realize how stationary our lives typically are. So, where shall I go? I’m about to die, or some such. Hmm. I say Ireland, Newfoundland, New Zealand, Tokyo (Japan), and perhaps Goa in India.

Sharks

Great Barrier Reef in Australia, or even closer by, the Red Triangle off San Francisco, are places where one could see a Great White shark, with some patience, or a skilled guide. I’d want to touch one. I’ve had a lifelong fear of sharks that is also part fascination. I think it would be fun to touch one before I went.

Reaching Out

There are people I’ve yet to meet that I’d like to at least communicate with in some form or fashion:

  • William Gibson
  • Serg Tankian
  • Wes Anderson
  • Kevin Smith
  • Chuck Palahniuk
  • Scott Ian

Create

I’d roll live video for the rest of my days, I think, creating some kind of record of thoughts and ideas and the things I’d summed up as part of my life until that point. Some of it would be silly, like movie reenactments. I’d want to create as much as I could before I shuffled off this mortal coil. Hell, I’d even get out my paints and things. Why stick with digital only?

So, the Purpose

The reason we’re supposed to do a bucket list is to remind us that time is finite, that we never know when it’s all going to be over, and that we should do these things. We’re supposed to look at what holds us back. We’re supposed to think beyond what limits us and consider doing some of these things.

What holds us back? I’d say that one part is money. Another part is fear. Another part is not knowing how to take first steps to accomplish these things. Katrina says another reason we don’t do all these things is that they’re very selfish. (Well, mine are). You can’t just be that selfish (unless of course you’re really going to kick the bucket).

And of course, one part is to dream.

So, I’m not doing many memes right now (deep in the heart of my Social Media 100), except that memes themselves are social media, and social networking, and wiring together of our human computers, and hey, if Jeff asks me for pretty much anything, I’d probably do it. : )

If you’re inclined to consider your own bucket list, I encourage you to think it over, post it, and send a comment to this post and/or to Jeff’s original post. It’s an interesting exercise, for sure.

Photo Credit, Moriza

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  • mia
    I can't believe I didn't make your list of people to meet before you die. Dude, you're dying. It's your last chance!
  • Great list, Chris!

    Jeff tagged me in his Facebook "Bucket List" note as well. Mine is a tad different than yours though hehe.
  • Kat
    edinburgh for haggis
    amsterdam for too many things to mention
    labrador for a week at the cabin winter ski-doo
    host a party with my family (all 70 of them)
    sledding in bowring park
    break a pile of bottles while i scream
    make a list of ex bfs call them all
    make a list of girls call them all
    sling my boy most of the next few months
    do anything violette wants to do
    pull her out of school
    chris quit his job (extended leave)
    get my license and drive to canada
    make-out with chris (a lot)
    get new tattoos
    video tape all of it
    blog all of it (have someone to write it all down and post it)
    buy the most amazing bed on the planet
    7000 count sheets and down pillows etc
    stay at a hotel for nights on end
    really really nice hotels
    beverly hills hotel
    eat steak as much as possible
    hang out with puppies
    hang out with kittens
    hold baby chicks
    nuzzle a big old friendly dog
    take huge bubble baths with the family every night
    wear silk, cashmere chenille always
    massage every morning
    back cracked every morning
    walk on the beach every morning
    never rush
    ever
    fly a kite
    nap whenever i felt sleepy / wherever i please
    go to a daniel lanois show (small club venue)
    jump off a pier into a cool lake
    jig a codfish
    bring MIL and FIL to Ireland
    slap ***** across the face
    snuggle ***** til we fall asleep
    choose my own death(injection)
    plan my funeral
    tell my dad 1 million times that i love him
    have my ashes thrown into the atlantic ocean off of a Newfoundland outport cliff
  • Rob
    I was thinking of coming up with my own list, but perhaps I'll just hang out with Kat. Here's hoping I'm not the ***** in "slap ***** across the face".
  • I was going to say "Make out with Chris a lot" also, but Kat beat me to it. :-(
  • aving moved over 70 times and driven across the country 4 times, I's mostly like to catch up on my reading - then I'd never die...
  • I’d like to know my dad a little better.

    I’d like to do a huge mural, not quite a Sistine Chapel job but a big room I can fill with my painted figures and my narrative with homages to all the artists that made my life so rich.

    I want to see that episode of the Sha Na Na show where the Ramones guested.
  • "There are people I’ve yet to meet that I’d like to at least communicate with in some form or fashion:

    * Scott Ian"

    Chris, you are so bad, you should be in detention...
  • I got tagged with the Bucket Meme by Jeff O'Hara @ zemote.com, & have been having an amazing time tracing it through others' posts!

    Here's my take on it--slightly different, since I didn't know what the term meant when I first heard it:

    http://mousewords.wordpress.com/2008/01/25/drea...

    Now that we all know what we want to do--let's DO it!
  • Lucas
    hmm.....Id definitly enjoy my last few months.
    1. Climb the Rocky Mountains.
    2. See Grand Canyon
    3. Egg the White House
    4. Rob a Bank (for the thrill, dead people dont need money)
    5. Drive a car through a shopping mall
    6. Skydive
    7. Meet Les Claypool
    8. See Japan
    9. Go to Oktoberfest
    10. Tell ****** I love her.
    Good thing I got the rest of my life to do all this.
  • You hit the nail on the head with money and fear holding people back.

    I would definitely say money, because for people who range from the impoverished to the upper middle-class -- no matter what -- they are held back by something: by simply not having the money; or, even if they have money, being trapped in the responsibilities and on the rigorous schedule that allows them that salary. Although we have personal lives outside of work, most of us are held to the old "grindstone" by an invisible noose that pretty much stays there 'til we retire, left with a short amount of time to enjoy our lives. Only a few rich, select people may have other choices.

    But most of us are mired in hefty gas prices, debt and the like. Most likely all but a few of us would jump to chasing our dreams were we to be able to survive without money and dissolve our debts. It's a sad lot we humans are in. Snatches of freedom appear here and there, but not enough to satisfy the reach of our dreams that far outweigh our daily lives.
  • What a sentimental thoughts you have. Deep feelings will surely push you to write stuff like this although this was a list more of practicality, I like the way you express your thoughts...
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