Those Not Performing

Audience

Know who has an interesting role? The “audience.” Look at the picture that goes with this post. None of these people would officially consider themselves the audience. They don’t list that as an occupation. None of them started out their day thinking, “You know, I think I’ll head down to Santa Monica Pier and see if I can find someone performing so I can stand there and take photos and cheer their antics.” But for a moment in time, they were the audience.

Those Not Performing Are the Audience

I have a thing for hip hop music and culture. Part of what I enjoy is the notion that there can be many voices in a particular song bringing their own ideas together. Jay-Z and Eminem and 50 Cent and several other performers show up on each other’s tracks. They share the spotlight with others, especially up and comers from their own label. So at any one point during these songs, even Jay-Z or Eminem or 50 Cent becomes the audience. Briefly.

But those who aren’t performing ever, those who choose not to perform, I wonder about them. It’s a new world. We all have these devices that allow us to be critics. Audiences are full of critics, who vote with their dollars, or make noise just to make noise.

And, of course, there are those who complain because they are “sometime” performers that believe they’ll draw a better audience by heckling someone else’s moment on stage.

We Are All The Audience At Some Point

I took that picture above. I was in the audience. On the day that photo was taken, I was enjoying a beautiful day with Jacqueline, and she and I watched some break dancing artists do their magic. And I cheered loudly, and gave what I could when the hat was passed, and I talked about the performance for some time afterward.

And when I am your audience, I don’t always see it the same way as you. When I am your audience, I don’t always feel that you and I would come to the same conclusion. But I appreciate you for taking the stage. If you’re doing something, and not just complaining from the comfort of the audience, then I give you credit for that.

But what about those who choose to take their moment in the audience to boo loudly? What about those who spend effort and breath to tell you that you’re not what they find appealing? What do you suppose they are thinking?

I never know. I tend to feel that they are lonely. I feel they are frustrated. I feel they worry that they’re not visible, so they speak up to show that they can still have their say. And I understand. Because most times, when I go to learn more about these voices, it’s hard to find their stage. It’s hard to understand their audience. Most times, they don’t have either. They, for all intents and purposes, are just like the people in the photo above: an audience waiting to happen.

Perform The Way You Intend

I’m very taken by Bhangra music right now. Sometimes, when others hear it, they’re not that into it. That’s fine. Some people like it, and others don’t. It’s the same with all things. I will perform on my stage the way I intend, and to the audience I believe appreciates what I’m saying. And when I learn from a creative and constructive critic, I will tip my hat in thanks. But when those who don’t like my music come to simply be a sour note in the audience, well, I’ll smile and wish you peace.

Welcome to the audience. I’m in it, and I’m clapping and waiting for the encore.

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  • http://cashwithatrueconscience.com/rbblog Ryan Biddulph

    Hi Chris,

    You get what you choose to see, and what you choose to see comes back at ya, karma style. Since we are all in the audience at some point, remember this.

    Hecklers and jeerers are miserable, and dish it out, and it comes back. Like a vicious cycles. Of course, virtually all of this negative energy is jealousy, and as Rev Run has said: “Haters are confused admirers.”

    I am big on preference. Contrast. As an audience member if I do not prefer what I am seeing or hearing, I simply respect the  person who has the cajones to perform, for their belief in self, I will clap, and leave it at that. I always felt this way, and after a few years of blogging and running my own team, I feel 100 times more strongly about this.

    It takes courage to do what you do, Chris. For me, and all other entrepreneurs to do what they do. So, when I see anybody perform, on any stage, believing in themselves, I commend them…and I certainly wouldn’t jeer them, because karma can be a problem like that.

    Thanks for sharing your insight Chris.

    RB

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      I always appreciate you, Ryan. Thank you for this perspective. 

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    Hey chris, at first when person read the title of this blog and then image to recognize what is written below is difficult. But the message hidden in this picture is very amazing that if everyone perform then change is possible.

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  • Dr. Bob Clarke

    Well said, Chris.  I am often taken by surprise (shock!) at the audience (some might say fans) who scream, curse, and ridicule athletes at professional sports events when their team is not performing up to their expectations.  

    When I am part of that audience, I often hear people say that they have a right to boo athletes because they’ve paid their money for a ticket.  Wow!  Really?   That’s such a bunch of crap, especially when these people scream out their obscenities in front of children in the audience.

    I tend to agree that these people are somehow taking out their frustrations of their life at this moment in time.  That somehow it makes them feel better, more important, and gives them a release to boo their home town heroes.  Whatever the reason, I doubt that it ever helps to push these athletes to a better performance.

    • http://www.dogwalkblog.com/ Rufus Dogg

      Same people who motivate their kids by screaming at them on the touchline at a soccer tournament. Probably.

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      The right to boo. Isn’t that odd, Doctor? You and I don’t feel that way. But isn’t that interesting? I hadn’t thought much about sports audiences, but that’s another whole thing. I wonder if there are any good books written about it. 

  • http://raulcolon.net Raul Colon

    Great I am a fan of bhangra

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      Thanks for sharing it. : ) 

      • http://raulcolon.net Raul Colon

        I just realized that the rest of the message did not publish since I was via my iPad!

        I am fan of Bhangra and given that I am in Puerto Rico a very small Island it makes me more of an outcast when I am playing that music. 

        Locally we have a band Calle 13 they are very creative and where able to fusion reggaeton,Bhangra, latin beats , and many types of music into their work. Since they also add a lot of social criticism to their music they get hammered by those who criticize. They have been added sharing their thoughts with the world and during the last Latin Grammy’s they won 9+ Grammy’s even though here locally since they are going against traditional ways they are not accepted. 

        I am big follower of them because they are always creating and no matter what the critics say they don’t lose their focus and continue towards improving what they do. 

        I think that Calle 13 is a good example on how some people create and others are just their too boo because they are too scared or to lazy to go against of what they are used to. 

  • commoncents

    Hi Chris, thought provoking idea today. Thanks!  I see hecklers as unethical performers  trying to steal another persons audience.  They are lazy and probably slaggards. Instead of performing to cultivate their own audience, they steal anothers audience for their own use by acting out.

    Generally, performers have retorts or put downs for the audience thief. 

  • Marlenechism

    People in pain create pain for others. 

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      Well said, Merlene. 

      • http://www.danieldecker.net/ Daniel Decker

        Rick Warren has a great saying in this same direction… “Hurt people, hurt people.”

  • http://twitter.com/alexvdm Alex Vandermeersch

    I’d rather get some angry comments or boo from the audience than a bored audience. Boredom is what I hate the most. If people came to learn or enjoy something & they don’t get engaged (in a good or bad way), I get a little annoyed. I sometimes think I should say to a too quiet audience: “Shout, spit, cry or laugh but do something”. If I don’t get emotions flowing, my message (or it anti-thesis) is certainly not coming across. Thinking & emotions go hand in hand like an old couple.  If you can’t get loved by your audience, try to get them engaged. If you can’t get them even engaged, maybe hate is still a better avenue than boredom….

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      You’re right about that, Alex. No response is a terrible thing. 

  • Anonymous

    Having spent a couple decades in bands, my bias is this: a performer who can’t handle hecklers should restrict their activity to the studio, not the stage. I always found handling hecklers in a bar/club environment simple. One has to be willing to take the verbal gloves off, though.

    For clarity, I hold most hecklers in low esteem. But thus far the comments run 11 to 0 against heckling, so I’ll indulge my contrarian streak. Most hecklers are driven by their own doubts, fears, inadequacies and pain. But some hecklers arise because they’re needed. The little boy who pointed out the truth about the emperor’s new clothes was a necessary heckler. He did not politely wait his turn or seek out his own stage. Such hecklers arise when our comedians fail to meet their obligation to point out savage truths (where’s Bill Hicks when we need him?)

    All that said,  I agree with Dr. Clarke on people who scream obscenities and otherwise show bad behavior at public events in front of children. I may be an idealistic scion of the punk rock era, but I’m a dad too.

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      Very interesting. I like it, Russ. You’re saying that they have a purpose. That their friction is just as important. Very good to think about that. 

      I appreciate your perspective. Bill Hicks. A legend. : ) 

  • http://www.danieldecker.net/ Daniel Decker

    Well said.

    Side note… this post reminded me of something through a point you made in the beginning… the importance of collaboration and being willing to be in the audience, regardless of the size of our own stage. Like the Jay-Z, 50, Eminem reference. Collaboration is good for many reasons and if we like someone else’s stuff, it’s okay to be in the audience to appreciate them and learn from them as well. Too many don’t celebrate the success of others nearly as much as they should.

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      Collaborating matters a great deal. I concur with you, sir. : ) 

  • http://twitter.com/BigHeadAsian Justin Moore-Brown

    Great article Chris.

    It’s easy to get settled into that arm-chair quarterback state of mind because it’s safe.  We (and by this I mean ME specifically) need to do a better job becoming performers and creating a space for our own audience. 

    Thank you for providing an article to bring us back to what matters. As always, I enjoy your perspective you bring to the table  :-)

  • http://www.betterhealthtoday.co Kay Wilson

    Stimulating & thoughtful, as the audience I see things from my perspective but another may have a totally different view.  I always like for my audience to participate and become the star of the show. 

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      And there’s that, Kay. The more we can make the audience into the stage, the better it becomes for everyone. 

  • http://www.monazu.com/blog Rishi Patel

    Great perspective Chris!

    I think you’ve come up with an important business lesson here. This is something I see in fellow entrepreneurs: they aren’t willing to stand up for their beliefs and push away the naysayers among their customers.You’re right in that some people are just out to stir up trouble, and we’re better off just cutting them off and concentrating on pleasing those who are respectful of our efforts. At the same time, we’ve got to be respectful to those that we work with.

    Thanks for another great post!

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      Naysayers are right until I become right. : ) 

  • Tonyfarley

    Yep, you know why they do it and you can intellectualize it all day.  But it still hurts, doesn’t it?  An even more effective strategy is to hate them back and demonize them in your thoughts. Hell, post a couple good blogs about them!  Now they are properly in their place and we can go on performing.

    I know, because I’m the worst.  A whole list of positive comments and one guy says something negative.  I blow up in my own head, hating him, finding out who he is, seeing what he does, a reason for me to discount his critique.  So much time and effort spent on one jerk when the effort should go toward the people who appreciate my work.

    • Marlene Chism

      So insightful!  Perhaps the balance is to learn what we can from the critics but in the end, don’t take it personally and don’t get distracted by the voice in the head, the hurt feelings or the negative intentions. 

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      I’m writing about that exact thing right now for my new book, Tony. I’m writing about how we could get 100 comments, and if only 2 are negative, we’ll obsess over those two comments. 

  • http://www.AchieveTheGreenBeretWay.com Michael Martel

    When I go to a show or some sort of a performance I see so many people just sitting, with blank looks on their faces.  When the time comes for applause of some sort of reaction, many do nothing simply waiting for the next thing to happen. I believe a lot of this comes from watching TV or even surfing the Internet.  There is not give and take.  When you are part of a living audience with a living performer, there is a give and take of energy. We are losing this with the glowing screens we have put between ourselves.  I am not a luddite, just someone who values interhuman contact and interaction.

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      When I speak on stage, I quite frequently, near the beginning, remind people that I’m actually there, in front of them, and that I’m not a DVD. : ) 

    • Anonymous

      I think we are coming full circle on this. Case in point, if Chris wrote this in a newspaper we couldn’t respond! Also, with things like GoToMeeting, Skype, Facebook, Face Time, etc. I think technology is becoming q conduit rather than a barrier to human interaction. What are your thoughts on where we’re headed?

      • http://www.AchieveTheGreenBeretWay.com Michael Martel

        I believe it is different.  I do post to Facebook and Twitter what I am doing and appreciate comments back.  At the same time, I believe there is a human to human energy that passes back and forth between people that putting technology between blocks.

  • http://twitter.com/stevegarfield Steve Garfield

    Hi Chris, 
    I see them. I see the audience in your photo, but I also see some others. Media Makers.

    Take another look at your photo. I count four people making media, plus you makes six. 
    The people who are not performing, but who are creating media, are, as Jay Rosen calls them, “the people formerly known as the audience.” In your post you also say that you “learn from a creative and constructive critic”… well those are people who used to be the audience, but now are contributing and sharing their thoughts on your performance with you, because you’ve given them a way to talk back. Finally, as I write this, there are 20 comments, from people formerly known as the audience.  ;-)

    It’s exciting to see this happening.

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      Great perspective, of course. : ) 

  • http://www.socialbullets.com/ Social Bullets

    Totally agreed Chris.  When we talk about performance then every single person should perform to get recognized.

  • Kevin

    Hi Chris,

    Great post!

    Hecklers are simply people who wants to share the attention of the one performing in front. Little do they know that they’re putting themselves to shame by doing so.

  • Dave Reynolds

    I have a little radio show. Every Christmas I try and raise food for my local food bank. This year I had enormous help from my online tribe called (I know you are familiar with them Chris) #UsGuys.  Seriously,  at one point with the energy and passion my tribe was displaying in helping me with this cause, they became the hosts and I became the audience. Pretty sure I know exactly what you are talking about Chris, and it WAS amazing to watch!

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      That’s a beautiful thing, Dave. So happy to hear about it. Did you blog a post? If so, share a link. It’ll take a moment for me to get it out of the quarantine but it’ll be worth it. : ) 

  • http://profiles.google.com/shava23 Shava Nerad

    I think Chris knows this, but a lot of you don’t — my first dollar I ever made in Boston was as a busker — a street musician — on the Common, back in 1978 when that was, uh, technically illegal.  Busking is legal now, and in Boston you don’t need a permit.  In Cambridge, you need a license, and depending on the year, I’ve been able to say I’m a licensed Storyteller and Beautiful Assistant (to my fiance, the magician! :).

    Street musicians get their share of hecklers, but for the modern magician, it’s a constant refrain.  With a tradition of secrecy to the art, and a more recent vogue of demystification in the media (Mythbusters, Bull****, etc.), the recent crop of magicians are under fire.

    This is a great metaphor — except, in real implemented flesh — of a closed vs. open source system.  Compare CGI in movies to magic in performance.  

    Do little kids go to a movie and yell, “I know how they did that, they did it with COMPUTERS!”  Well, maybe some do!  And maybe at home they would, along with a few friends.  

    But if a little kid on the street “debunks” a magician’s effect (please don’t call them tricks — we sometimes practice hundreds or thousands of hours) — no matter how wrong the kid is, the magician can’t say a word, but the parent almost certainly is likely to *praise* his or her little genius for interrupting everyone else’s fun and suspension of disbelief.  Bravo!  Brava!  Let’s hear it for rudeness.  Can you imagine that at Blue Man Group?  At Cirque?

    One tactic we’ve adopted particularly for kids, is to promise if they keep their opinions to themselves for the sake of everyone’s enjoyment until the end of a performance — be an audience together! — we’ll teach them all how something works they can do themselves at the end.  So, together, they participate in *being* an audience so together they can participate at the end in learning a secret — which we tell them they can share or not, as they wish — but we remind them that it’s their fun, whether they chose or not, and what respecting that means during performance!

    Meanwhile, we have considered doing a class series called “Magic for Makers,” for engineers and dorkbot types, where each class would introduce a classic *principle* of magic effects, some traditional effects that use it, and inviting the class to brainstorm with us to design some new effects and devices and routines around classic principles using new materials and tech, drawing on their knowledge of tech/engineering and our understanding of stage, performance, and magical effects.

    For the art of magic to continue, we believe it must be open sourced fully.  This is, believe it or not, a huge cultural conflict among magic performers today.  Most magic effects are protected only by trade secret status, if that.  The web and mass media have really cracked open a lot of the old lock and key apostolic secrecy of the art, which really were breached with the library, literacy, and cheap printing systems of the late 1800s.  Why are we keeping the barn doors locked?

    We’d better stop looking at the barn doors and remembering the audience!  They’re not laughing in amazement at the effects, anymore.

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      VERY interesting way to handle it, Shava. I like that story a great deal. I’m glad that you’ve rightly finished with reminding us not to look at the barn doors. Holy cats. I haven’t read a comment of yours in a while and THIS one is a gem. You’re a great person to know. Thanks for stopping by and happy December. : ) 

  • http://sagoyism.com Josh Sarz

    Hey there Chris, 

    I agree. The world is evolving and we all need to start performing in our own ways. We’re usually the audience, but if we stay as the audience we”ll just feel like we haven’t done anything in our lives that we can brag about to our grandchildren. 

    That’s why I’m doing what I’m doing, or at least I’m trying to. hah

    Have a wonderful 2012 Chris Brogan.

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  • Nick Boris

    Completely agree. Too often it is too easy to just boo from the cheap seats.

    I’d rather be a part of the act and fail, than to be that timid and lonely one who just boos.

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    Hi Chris! I totally agree. It is very interesting way to handle it.

  • Nigel Parry

    It is partly a national trait. This was brought home to me when watching several Rugby World Cup games recently – there are definitely different national characteristics at play. For example, the Argentine fans are always polite, cheering their own team, never booing. Australians on the other hand can’t seem to do anything else. So bear in mind that culture plays a big part in this participation / watching thing. 

  • http://www.jkp.org/ Jagadguru Kripaluji Maharaj

    I am your audience at a point, I don’t always feel that you and I would come to the same conclusion.

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  • Anonymous

    Great thoughts all. When I read this I couldn’t help but think about talk radio. A good talk show host is brillian with the hecklers – they give them airtime and use that to launch a wave of counter-calls from the audience. Instead of hiding from interaction due to the hecklers, they embrace it!

    I think that as we get more two-way (or multiple-way if you’re picky) with our communication we will have a lot more disagreeing people participate. And that’s ok!

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  • Glareing

    Interesting blog post, I find it unremarkable when the whining is either coming from the stage or the audience…..its still whining…..grow up

  • Anonymous

    Interesting thoughts. I am sure that being too critical we can hurt someone, without giving him a chance to discover all his potential. It doesn’t mean that it is necessary to admire everything and always, but I suppose it is worth to try to understand and even to feel the inner world of others.

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    First I wanna give you some cheers, for the performance. After that, I have to leave because I’m going to perform by myself. Thank you for the inspiration.

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