Why Commute

Every time I get back in my car to navigate Boston area traffic, I realize why I’ve built the life I have. I worked long and hard on achieving my escape velocity, and it’s moments like what’s below that get me thinking.

Contrary to your fears, I’m not really going to die in moments like this.

People always ask which camera I used to shoot my video. I use the Panasonic Lumix DMC-LX3 (that’s a review of the camera).

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  • http://www.christopheradams.com/blog Christopher Adams

    I think about escaping my commute many times during my 2 hours of driving daily on weekdays. I hear u loud and clear and think the flexibility to work where and when u wish is reward that I find most desirable about being an entrepreneur and working in an online business. Nice post chris.

  • jessicaswanson

    There's NOTHING like escaping that commute! I was able to “escape” five years ago…hallelujah, hallelujah, HALLELUJAH! Thanks for the reminder ;)

  • Jodi Kaplan

    Could be worse, could be the NY subway – in 100 degree heat! That's why my commute is now 4 feet.

    So, where's the Camaro? ;-)

  • http://www.tammycamp.com Tammy Camp

    That looks miserable! I travel a lot for business, but I'm very grateful I don't have to commute, that I don't have to start and end my working day with such frustration!

    Traditional office environments are becoming more and more baffling to me; who is the traditional office set-up still working for? Who is 9-5 still working for?

  • Amy

    Chris! First, I'm a little nervous about the whole camera in the car thing!!! (At least you don't put your makeup on in the car. Or, do you??) :0)

    Commuting is torture. Frankly, for me, any traffic is torture. I'd sooner hit the road at 4am (and often do…) then risk getting stuck in traffic.

    In fact, I have mastered the short commute! While I'm only working at home when I'm working on my blog, I have always had a commute of less than 10 minutes to work == and not by accident. It's just so important to me not to spend my time commuting, that I will do anything I can to avoid it. When I am stuck in the car though, I am forever thankful for cellphones and the opportunity to spend the time catching up with people who I can't really talk to at length once I get home.

    Glad to be working at home today. Thanks for the reminder!

    Amy

  • http://rickcaffeinated.com Rick Stilwell

    I'm your exception for this rule. I achieved “escape velocity” for me by jumping from one career path to a completely different one. Still working for someone else, but given lots of room to find my own way. And I love my commute. It's not Boston so it's just 30mins in the morning and in the afternoon – just enough to think and chill so that work and home don't stay intermingled too long.

  • http://www.michelledamico.com michelledamico

    Chris, I am on my third year of working from home as an independent contractor. For 10 years before that, I commuted to various downtown Chicago and suburban jobs, traveling up to 4 hours each day in a train or car. I hated it. It took me away from my family and made me a stranger to my local community.

    Now, I have an extreme amount of freedom, I see my kids at breakfast and dinner (and lunch in summertime), I exercise in my hilly town every morning and I am totally connected so my clients can't tell that I'm not in a high rise cubicle.

    I'm grateful every morning I wake up, and feel extremely lucky that I'm in marketing and PR, where working from home is hardly noticeable to the client (unless the dog at my side stirs and barks when he senses the mailman on the driveway).

    I wonder why it took me so long to do this, but I don't think too hard about it. I'm just happy to be where I am. I strongly encourage others to try it.

    Michelle
    http://www.michelledamico.com

  • http://www.davekuchenbecker.com Dave Kuchenbecker

    I'm happy I live in a smaller town in Wisconsin where the commute isn't so bad (about 10 minutes to work). Even that is getting too much – and I'm working to get out of that rut into something myself. Chris – I love the thoughts on Escape Velocity! Thanks for everything you do.

  • Bkjrecruiter

    Chris- VERY powerful video… (moved me) I don't commute anymore, I work from home in my recruiting business, and my staff is virtual… I only do business with people who share my passion, I only hang with people who lift me up (iron sharpens iron), and I do things on my (our/family) time….. The world is completely viewed differently because of a decision I made nearly 4yrs ago to start my own GIG… Best, Brian-

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  • http://www.CampbellDuke.com Elizabeth Campbell Duke

    I like your term, “escape velocity”. I 've achieved escape velocity and now live and work on Vancouver Island. I have clients who put themselves into the “career changer” category who are looking for assistance with hitting their own escape velocity and moving here.

    I started my travels in the greater Toronto area and arrived here via Saskatoon (considerably smaller, but very cold). By the time we left Saskatoon, I'd managed to secure a teaching position in the alternative school only about 10 blocks from our alternative little house. The walk took me past the local pub and coffee shop. I don't envy you the Boston driving – when I visited as a kid back in the mesozoic we were advised to leave our car at the campground and take the shuttle b/c of the traffic. I can't imagine what its become since then.

    I'm seeing an increase in the number of employees dissatisfied with the demands of the traditional workplace – I'm seeing it in friends, family members and in clients. They're dissatisfied because of the nasty commutes and the inflexibility of employers around family committments and needs. I think people are especially dissatisfied because much of their work could be done closer to home – or even at home. The solution many are coming to is to work for themselves – either as solopreneurs or to secure a series of temporary contracts – or a combination thereof.

    The secret in achieving escape velocity is to first come to the awareness that you can do what you're doing on your own if need be – you don't need to give up so much of your life to an employer.

  • victoriakamm

    Funny. I got an office after working from home and that seemed to make a difference in getting clients. A year into I can't wait to get done with my lease! I will not do this again.

  • stuartcrawford

    Chris, totally like you term “escape velocity”. The City of Calgary has a program called workSHIFT (http://www.workshiftcalgary.com/) which is geared towards training businesses in our city about the value of telecommuting. However, I don't know what impact it is having out there. We are continuing to build skyscrapers and have the tallest building in Western Canada being built right now.

    Although we don't have the traffic issues that our US friends have…we still have traffic.

    Thanks for the great post and the excellent comments

    Cheers

    Stuart Crawford
    Calgary, AB

  • http://www.techguerilla.com/ Matt Ridings – Techguerilla

    As someone who spent years attempting to build a business where I'd never commute again, I can definitely relate. But I'd also say there are two parts to it. The professional side is important, but you have to first redefine (or as I think you call it, “reframing”) your internal objectives. I don't want to jump into the touchy-feely swimming pool here, but I wrote a post a while back in honor of my aunt who had just passed away called “The difference between success and happiness” that touches on it. There is no selling, no advertising, etc. at that post so perhaps some of the folks here might get a little something out of it.

    Cheers

  • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

    Cool! We started the Workshifting blog (http://workshifting.com) a year or so ago, so we're into that term, too. : )

  • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

    I have an office now. Signed the lease a few days ago, but it's footsteps away from the home. : )

  • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

    Perfect! That's exactly what I was hoping to hear. : )

  • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

    Well excellent! There are many paths to the finish line. : )

  • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

    10 more days for the Camaro.

  • Marc

    Nice Glasses Chris…..

  • http://josephratliff.com JosephRatliff

    Chris, I just had a nightmarish flashback. I drove “that commute” for almost 10 years on the I-5 corridor here in WA. Anywhere from 5 to 18 miles each way. At the most the commute added 2.5 hours of wasted time every day…until I started to listen to CD's of Tony Robbins while driving it.

    I love the term “escape velocity”… because for me, it took awhile to achieve it…in fact, it was like trying to escape the gravitational pull of the sun at times.

    Great thoughts Chris.

  • http://stuart.calgarybloggers.ca Stuart R. Crawford

    Excellent Chris…nothing like working from the comfort of your own home—when you can

  • http://www.michelledamico.com michelledamico

    Chris, want to add 1 more thing. My 10 year old woke up sick today. Working from home means no guilty feelings when I leave her with a caregiver, and no hassles in arranging doctors visits. I feel very blessed!
    Michelle

  • http://johnmclachlan.ca/ John McLachlan

    I commuted from 1979 to 1983 and then swore never to again or, if I had to head out in the car, to make sure it was always in the opposite direction as rush hour. Been successful creating a work life that doesn't need commuting since then.

    I believe commuting is indicative of our a bigger problem in our culture. People often just assume they have to commute and start to never even question it which is exactly what they do with other parts of their lives: never question it.

    Though many people are starting to get your great term “escape velocity” I think it will take more external forces to get the majority to look at things (such as their lives, commutes) differently. This will be things like poorer economic times or things like $250/barrel oil. Until then, the culture loves its cars, loves its freeways and loves commuting because in general, most people don't even think about it.

    Great post, Chris.

  • http://www.wildwomannetwork.com SandraLeeSchubert

    I don't drive. But I traveled for many years I rode the NYC subway system and believe me it is nicer to stay home to work.

  • http://twitter.com/lynaia Lynaia Lutes

    So very true. I think it takes thought leaders like you who are also employers to get this first. While you always have choice for where you work and live, some of us choose not to own our own businesses for various reasons. I love my work in PR, but I just have no desire to run my own company (I get plenty of the reward – and headache – of that experience helping my husband run his business.) I'm just lucky enough to work for a guy that gets escape velocity and creates ways for his employees to manage it in their lives. I work from home two days a week, which saves me six hours in commuting time. When it comes to getting more time for my family or myself, that's a really big deal.

  • http://twitter.com/lynaia Lynaia Lutes

    So very true. I think it takes thought leaders like you who are also employers to get this first. While you always have choice for where you work and live, some of us choose not to own our own businesses for various reasons. I love my work in PR, but I just have no desire to run my own company (I get plenty of the reward – and headache – of that experience helping my husband run his business.) I'm just lucky enough to work for a guy that gets escape velocity and creates ways for his employees to manage it in their lives. I work from home two days a week, which saves me six hours in commuting time. When it comes to getting more time for my family or myself, that's a really big deal.

  • http://www.wordandmouth.com Dave Thackeray

    I totally get it and I've been doing exactly what you preached for a year. And it rocks.

    Irrespective of that confirmation, I have to say one thing:

    Chris, I absolutely love – to the point of being giggly – your far hairier face. I always thought the goatee made you look a bit like the guy who played Truman Capote (obviously not when he played that character, or indeed, I don't even think he has a goatee at all). But now I think you look fine.

  • http://kommein.com Deb Ng

    I commuted two hours into New York City each day for 18 years before having a child reminded me that it's precious time being wasted on a train. I'm home now to work my own hours and do some very cool things with my family. It may mean I work some odd hours, but the trade off is well worth it. I miss a lot of things about working in an office – the commute isn't one of them. I'd probably be more productive if I didn't work at home, but again, the trade off is worth it.

  • http://twitter.com/randycantrell Randy Cantrell

    My commute is short, but that doesn't mean it's hazard free. I have to navigate two Westies, various dog toys and occasionally, a dead bird dragged inside. Perhaps I need a dog free zone in the house!

    Glad I'm not in Boston. Wait a minute! I'm in Dallas. Our traffic sucks, too!!

  • Linda Locke

    Agree with Chris – commuting is a metaphor for giving up control of your own life. My commute was on a plane – crossing half the country early each Monday, returning each Friday evening, and on the rest of the days in a car. All commuting stopped in April, when I took an early retirement package (I call is “cash for clunkers”) and started working from home. After nearly 25 years of the corporate commuting life I luxuriate in choosing my own geography.

  • elainefogel

    Chris, you describe the typical big city traffic situation. I moved to Phoenix over five years ago from Toronto, which is apparently rated as the #1 busiest commuting city in the world. I am so much more content working in a home office. Not only don't I fight traffic anymore, I can work at my desk w/o makeup (girls, you'll relate); I can wear casual clothes; and I can have lunch in the backyard (when it's not 110). I don't contribute to pollution and I don't put on a lot of mileage. All one needs is self discipline. :)

  • Dixie Darr

    I gave up commuting 25 years ago and have been working mostly from home ever since. When I have to drive someplace to teach or speak or meet, I make sure it isn't during rush hour. A couple of years ago, I accepted a temporary (two-month) position that required me to commute 15 miles each way every day. Although it was a very lucrative gig, the commute made it almost unbearable.

  • http://internetmarketingformommies.com Jackie Lee

    We chose to live in the country ~ away from other people, so we could enjoy the quiet, the clean air and have some land. Because of this choice my commute ~ although not packed with traffic still took an hour each way. I was so happy to let go of that commute once I started working from home.

    On the low days when I've thought about getting a J-O-B I would factor in the commute and realize there was no way between child care and commuting that a job could ever be as profitable as I could be from home. Kept me motivated and working through the tough times as a solo entrepreneur.

  • http://www.danieldecker.net Daniel Decker

    I dove out on my own a little over 10 years ago. Started with an office because I “thought” you had to have an office to be “professional” etc. Nice space in a nice office park. Had 2 employees to start and eventually took it up several more. Hated the commute and the times when I was home and needed something from the office. Hated the overhead of the employees too.

    After a while I decided that the timing was not right to continue on that same path (my priorities changed) so I dropped the employees and took my office into our home. Haven't looked back since. Now I have a small staff and also utilize several gifted freelancers who specialize in different areas. We all work remote but get together often via group tele-calls and for those who are local, we meet up physically.

    This option affords me great flexibility and the priority choice that I have decided upon for now (until my kids are older). Also enables me to utilize talent on particular projects that I could not afford to retain and pay on a regular basis. It's the best of both worlds for me. It's my escape velocity. I've learned how to maximize it and be effective with it.

  • http://www.webhostinglogic.com Frank Adams

    When we reach a certain point in our life, our priorities tend to change and so our lifestyle. When we were younger, we were adventurous and we like to travel. While we age, we slow down and start thinking of our family. But the most important is, whatever we do in life, we must be happy doing it, else, quit.

  • http://www.webshoo.com R. Anthony Solis

    Chris – I just finished up your Social Media 101 and now subscribed to your blog. Where have you been all my life? LOL. This video sums up what I've been experiencing and grow to understand about the life style choices we have.

    This Escape Velocity philosophy or concept is perfect, after having read all of Zen Habits by Leo, REWork and now I'm reading the Simplify Life chapter in ” The Jesuit Guide to Almost Everything by James Martin, SJ.

    Thanks for being you!

    - RAS

  • Megan

    I couldn't agree more! It's so important to create the life we want – we can still achieve our goals and complete our to-do lists, but also have the ability to “live” and spend time enjoying life.

  • http://www.BeyondThePedway.com Tim Jahn

    Couldn't agree with ya more, Chris. And I'm not sure if that's how bad Boston traffic is usually, but Chicago is lots worse! And at all times of the day. I joke with friends and family (well, not joking I suppose) that the only time you're guaranteed no traffic is at noon or in the middle of the night. Except I've ran into traffic at 12:30am before!!

    Definitely share your sentiment on choosing your lifestyle to avoid commuting. Something I've done for myself and am continuing to work to maintain and sustain.

    I don't necessarily condone you filming while driving. Seems as equally dangerous as texting while driving! But I suppose you know your skillset :) As the sign outside some church on my way home from the dentist last week proclaimed, “Honk if you like Jesus. Text while driving if you want to meet him.”

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  • http://twitter.com/kiwicarol Carol Cooper-Taylor

    Hi Chris, worried about you filming and driving at the same time.

  • http://www.superdumbsupervillain.com/ superdumb

    Definitely the prime reason I don't live in the northeast. Not much traffic and way more breathing room in the middle of the country. Obviously, there are tradeoffs. It's amazing how different what is important to me creeping towards 40 is from what was important at 25 or even 30.

  • http://www.kherize5.com Suzanne Vara

    Genesis huh? ok moving on.

    I spent many many hours on Route 80 in NJ and also 287. I would read a full newspaper as certain areas was dead stop parking lot like, memorize the license plates of those around me each morning and, as expected, wave to them as we were all the same time in the same traffic. I did not mind so much in the morning as all I was doing was going to is work and sometimes enjoyed the time to think but the way home, I was pretty much done thinking and just wanted to be home.In Vegas we have the traffic reader boards that tell how many minutes you will sit on the freeways. Now, I loathe traffic. I pretty much know the “long” lights and also the light patterns for the surface streets nearby. Work Shifting is what works but it also staggers an economy. Less gas (of course less pollution so that is a win), less office space leases, less interaction with people but it enhances productivity. Less time in car = more time working and also more time with family. But at the same time, the office is always there. The urge to pull mega hours is a walk across the room or down the stairs.

    Thanks for the glimpse of the east … if even only for a few minutes.

  • http://www.summerhills.com Bangalow Accommodation

    Yes it's funny that we work hard in busy cities just so that we can escape them on weekends. You've gotta wonder what it's all in aid for ? Entertaining post.

  • http://www.roger-hamilton-news.com Roger

    Very Nice….. I know that everyone get irritate due to the traffic problem. that's why I prefer the Bike rather then Car.

  • http://www.DesertMountainHomesOnline.com CarmenBrodeur

    Nice to put a face and voice to you…I was amazingly lucky this past year. My office moved into a new building that is exactly 90 seconds from my house. I don't know how I did it but I thank my lucky stars every day. It is sooooo nice to not have to spend countless hours per month in my car. It is such a waste of precious time.

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  • http://reallifemadman.blogspot.com Marjorie Clayman

    I visited Boston a month or so ago. I didn't do any driving…my friend did all of it (she's a resident). You would not be able to pay me enough money to do that kind of driving every day. Or any day. Sheesh. I can understand why commutes are something you avoid up there.

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