Improve Your Influence

Statistics Matter

The term “influence” doesn’t mean a lot, and yet, it seems to be the holy grail for online social media people. Marketers coming to the fold worry quite a deal about reaching the influencers. The dogma, such as it is, says that anybody can be an influencer. Only, you and I know that we all feel like a nobody sometimes, and that we’re not all influential about the same things.

For instance, I trusted Mark Horvath to share good advice on the cameras he uses for his projects, and that’s why I bought my Canon Vixia HF S200: because Mark said It was a good one. Mark was/is much more influential to my choice than someone with 200,000 followers on Twitter (or similar). He certainly has more influence to me than most ads, because I know Mark’s a real guy that I know and have met.

Klout says this about my influence:

Klout Score

When I look for analysis, I get this:

  • Chris Brogan has built a very large and engaged network through high quality, trustworthy content.
  • Chris Brogan is very likely to have any message amplified and acted upon.
  • Chris Brogan is constantly engaged by very influential people.
  • Chris Brogan creates quality content that engages a very large audience on a level very few can achieve.

But what does that all mean? Or a better question: Can we improve our influence? Here are some thoughts.

It Starts With a Solid Platform

I should be clear. I never set out to be influential. I set out to be helpful. That word, “helpful,” turns out to be ONE way out of several to be influential. Rich people often get to be influential, because money gives people improved reach, and improved options for decision-making. Because I didn’t have a ton of money, I ended up finding ways to be helpful instead. And I put that helpfulness right out there to be seen on my website, my home base. Over and over, I gave more than anyone I knew, and I gave away my “secrets,” so that you could do it, too. But it wouldn’t matter one bit without the next step.

The next step of influence is awareness.

Get Seen

I joke with Steve Garfield all the time about his awesome book, Get Seen. I ask him, “How do you get seen?” And Steve answers, “Be there.”

That’s the secret. Be there. I had accounts on every social network early. (I’m in the first 11K to join Twitter.) And when I got there, I connected, communicated, and offered help. But we’ll get back to that. First? I was there. And I was active. And I was not just active, but I shared the spotlight.

I did the same thing in real space. I’m one of the rare social media types who’s actually met several thousand of the people he’s connected with online. And I’ve met quite the mix of influential people and up-and-comers. (Know where the real gain comes from? Spend time with the up-and-comers.)

So, I started with a platform, and then I showed up everywhere I could afford (and sometimes not afford) to go. But what did I do once I got there?

Share the Spotlight

One thing that helps one become influential is to work on helping others rise up. The more people you can support and help, the more people who will remember where they got that help, and who will extend some level of your influence, whether or not they choose to do so. I promote others far more often than I ever talk about my own accomplishments. Why? Because you didn’t come here to learn about me. You came here to improve your own efforts. I share as much as I can about other people, so that you understand what will give you the best chance to improve.

Sometimes, I talk about people like Tony Robbins, who I think has given us lots to learn. I talk about Tom Peters, a mentor of mine for decades, who continues to really light my mind up with new ideas, and as I tell him at every opportunity I get, who continues to get me in trouble, all these many years later.

Other times, I talk about aGlenda Watson Hyatt, who is helping bloggers and businesses figure out accessibility and helping them grow a market segment that we all are missing our chance to help. I point out Suzanne Vara, who is one of the most loyal, most energized, most dedicated person I’ve met. To me, there’s great value in what Glenda and Suzanne show you, and I’d rather you get to know them better.

Sharing the spotlight in this way, though, improves your influence. How? It shows people (you!) what I value, and it suggests that I’ll be quick to point you out when someone else needs what you offer.

Working The Numbers of Influence

I work really hard to get my RSS subscribers. I ask for more whenever I can. I also ask people to subscribe to my newsletter. I don’t work as hard on getting followers on Twitter. Instead, I work really hard on being relevant and useful and funny and quirky and worthwhile. I work on promoting other people and sharing what they’ve found. Why? Because I think that’s how to get numbers there. (Want more Twitter followers? Get More Twitter Followers today!)

I look at my stats via Google Analytics, via PostRank, via HootSuite, and from other sources, to see what works for me, what doesn’t. I work those numbers. I don’t just let them show up magically. I’m not using HubSpot on this site, but in future projects, that might be another way for me to improve my numbers and measurement, as well.

Influence Isn’t Handed Over

No one passes out influence. Yes, sometimes, someone very influential will tap you and you can benefit from this, but that’s rare. No one came and tapped my shoulder. And yet, I did something with each and every opportunity I was handed.

When I worked with Jeff Pulver, I worked hard to help his efforts, and I also did what I could to meet the people he put in front of me. I listened hard to his every lesson, and I learned from observing the kinds of people he spent his time with, who he gave his attention to, and where he put emphasis. Every step of the way, I gained influence.

Before Jeff, I worked on influence by learning things. Christopher S. Penn and I figured out how to run PodCamp, and we learned from that how to build networked relationships with important people in the podcasting and new media space.

After Jeff, I learned how to leverage every new opportunity I got into a chance to help someone else, a chance to promote someone else, and/or an opportunity to grow my business. Never once did someone hand me more influence. I earned it.

That’s the Silver Lining To This All

Don’t work on your Klout score. Work on understanding influence. Don’t work on how many followers you have, except insofar as you worry about how to feed them useful information that will grow your reach.

Do work on learning how to be most helpful to those in your segment of the universe that are growing. Do work on putting more resources in the hands of people who need to grow. Do work on never missing an opportunity to take a privilege and to extend it into something more than what you started with. And say thank-you a thousand times more than you are today.

And that, friends, is some of what I know about influence.

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  • http://HeidiCohen.com Heidi Cohen

    Chris–I agree with your insights as well of those in some of the other comments. Influence as a metric can be difficult to assess. A person can be an expert, go-to person in a small niche that’s not interacting on social media.

    Klout as an assessment of social media standing overlooks non-Twitter and Facebook connections. It doesn’t include LinkedIn or other online media.For example President Obama has a lower Klout score than Justin Bieber, the only person who has 100 Klout! Yet no one would think that Justin Bieber was more powerful than the President of the US.

    Thank you for sharing,
    Happy marketing,
    Heidi Cohen

  • http://HeidiCohen.com Heidi Cohen

    Chris–I agree with your insights as well of those in some of the other comments. Influence as a metric can be difficult to assess. A person can be an expert, go-to person in a small niche that’s not interacting on social media.

    Klout as an assessment of social media standing overlooks non-Twitter and Facebook connections. It doesn’t include LinkedIn or other online media.For example President Obama has a lower Klout score than Justin Bieber, the only person who has 100 Klout! Yet no one would think that Justin Bieber was more powerful than the President of the US.

    Thank you for sharing,
    Happy marketing,
    Heidi Cohen

  • http://invisibleinkdigital.com Invisibleinkdigital

    Hey Chris,

    The impact of klout, its relevancy and impact has been discussed in a number of channels of late (including your great blog). Where do you stand on Seth Godin’s position that you should not be overly concerned with popularity or influence and rather you should be focusing on your ‘art’?

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      I don’t disagree with Seth. That’s kind of where my article ends up, right?

      • http://twitter.com/iconic88 iconic88

        Great post Chris!

        Thank you!

  • http://twitter.com/bobledrew Bob LeDrew

    Hey Chris: Good post. Reminded me of the obsession that seemed to exist (and may still) about SEO. Always seems to be a certain point beyond which you end up “gaming systems.” Isn’t the best strategy summarized by “do good stuff” and the rest will follow?

    • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

      Funny you should mention this. I was just at Google HQ last week. I’ll tell you, I think there’s a LOT to sticking to the streamlined good stuff and not worrying about the crazy stuff.

      • http://www.moderntechfloors.com Scott Avery

        My business wouldn’t be booming without blogging and content. That’s what I’ve learned lately is that getting to the top of Google is meaningless if nothing in the site prompts a call or e-mail.

        I know you call it influence and along with that I would suggest “entreprenueral empathy” is something that great mentors have. My mentor has a PR firm with high retainers, but shares enough with me in a five minutes over casual conversation that it has really changed my business. We met by coincidence and we work in totally different industries, but I certainly would make great efforts to help his business in anyway because of his friendship and advice.

        I’m grateful for your posts because they show me that people still understand that success is still tied most to being genuine and helpful

  • http://twitter.com/bobledrew Bob LeDrew

    Hey Chris: Good post. Reminded me of the obsession that seemed to exist (and may still) about SEO. Always seems to be a certain point beyond which you end up “gaming systems.” Isn’t the best strategy summarized by “do good stuff” and the rest will follow?

  • http://twitter.com/bobledrew Bob LeDrew

    Hey Chris: Good post. Reminded me of the obsession that seemed to exist (and may still) about SEO. Always seems to be a certain point beyond which you end up “gaming systems.” Isn’t the best strategy summarized by “do good stuff” and the rest will follow?

  • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

    Makes perfect sense to me. I’d trust people I know personally and closely much more than a typical person I knew from online only.

  • http://chrisbrogan.com Chris Brogan

    Makes perfect sense to me. I’d trust people I know personally and closely much more than a typical person I knew from online only.

    • http://flavors.me/40deuce 40deuce

      It just makes sense, no?

  • http://www.webdesignability.com/ Terry Dunn

    I know you’ve done your best to shed some light on the amazing influence you have, and although I found it a facinating article, I am still confused about how you have become so influential…

  • http://www.kherize5.com Suzanne Vara

    Chris

    Thank you so much for your kind words. I am humbled and also incredibly giddy to be mentioned in a post with Steve Garfield, Jeff Pulver, Christopher Penn, Tom Peters, Glenda Watson Hyatt and of course one of my favorites Tony Robbins.

    Steve Garfield has some very sound advice in getting seen. When people see us over and over they start to really pay attention, believe and trust us. It gives us a chance to be able to reach out to people, connect and most of all learn about what they do so we can share them with our network.

    We need interaction with people. It is imperative and supports our dependence upon one another. Meeting new people helps to build upon that dependence but it also can yield a deeper relationship. All of our relationships are created by some sort of attraction. The attraction is from physical in the attraction or more emotional in their sense of humor, values and kindness/gratitude.Gratitude is synonymous with joy and happiness which makes that attraction even greater. The attraction is only one part of the relationship as the time spent cultivating and getting to know someone is a major component in how we build deep relationships. When we spend time with people whether that be in person or online, we are learning how we can help them. It is easier than asking them as we just see where we could fit in. We know that when we ask people how we can help them many times they say that we cannot which is true sometimes but other times it is that they do not really know how you would be able to, Getting to know people and spending time with them, we learn how to being helpful but acting and asking.

    You are such a special and incredible friend and so dedicated to those around you. Hugs!

  • http://www.kherize5.com Suzanne Vara

    Chris

    Thank you so much for your kind words. I am humbled and also incredibly giddy to be mentioned in a post with Steve Garfield, Jeff Pulver, Christopher Penn, Tom Peters, Glenda Watson Hyatt and of course one of my favorites Tony Robbins.

    Steve Garfield has some very sound advice in getting seen. When people see us over and over they start to really pay attention, believe and trust us. It gives us a chance to be able to reach out to people, connect and most of all learn about what they do so we can share them with our network.

    We need interaction with people. It is imperative and supports our dependence upon one another. Meeting new people helps to build upon that dependence but it also can yield a deeper relationship. All of our relationships are created by some sort of attraction. The attraction is from physical in the attraction or more emotional in their sense of humor, values and kindness/gratitude.Gratitude is synonymous with joy and happiness which makes that attraction even greater. The attraction is only one part of the relationship as the time spent cultivating and getting to know someone is a major component in how we build deep relationships. When we spend time with people whether that be in person or online, we are learning how we can help them. It is easier than asking them as we just see where we could fit in. We know that when we ask people how we can help them many times they say that we cannot which is true sometimes but other times it is that they do not really know how you would be able to, Getting to know people and spending time with them, we learn how to being helpful but acting and asking.

    You are such a special and incredible friend and so dedicated to those around you. Hugs!

  • Anonymous

    Chris,
    Let’s face it, you are influential. Very influential. I say that with much truth and admiration. Why admiration? Because of how you’ve gone about becoming influential. Simply put, you did not set out to be influential but rather be helpful, to be true to others and to be true to yourself.
    What may be overlooked here is the commitment and consistency you’ve exercised in your efforts. You’ve been at this a long time. You’ve been consistent in your efforts and in your approach.
    Klout and other measurements are very useful to give us an idea of how we are progressing in our efforts but are not and can never be, in my opinion, the end all assessment.
    My single most basic and necessary components of personal branding (or any branding for that matter) is to be genuine and authentic. If we are those two things in our lives, in our work and in our spiritual efforts, everything else will fall in to place.
    Thanks for your enlightening blog. Thanks for making me aware of some very cool people I wouldn’t have otherwise been exposed to (Suzanne, Glenda, Jeff etc.).

  • http://zachcole.com Zach Cole

    I love the idea of not setting out to be influential, but rather to be helpful. That really is the key to it all! Great post, Chris.

  • Anonymous

    Chris, this is such a wonderful post and such a beautiful – yet practical – message about sharing the love. Influence doesn’t matter unless we are helping others. On top of that, I love your point about getting cozy with up-and-comers because more times than not- they bring a fresh perspective to business that you simply can’t get from seasoned bloggers, entrepreneurs, etc. They bring bright ideas and new solutions that people who have been “in it” can’t see.

    I believe we are truly in a time when the idea of competition is being overturned by the brilliant concept of collaboration and this post is a great reminder that we have to get out of our egos and into our hearts if we want to build a brand/influence that matters.

    Maybe one day, if we are both at one of those IRL events, we can have an in person conversation to see where our Klout scores are and if we agree with them… right now, I’m not so sure ;)

    Thank you also for the reminder that being grateful has a lot to do with influence! So very true. :)

  • Anonymous

    Chris, this is such a wonderful post and such a beautiful – yet practical – message about sharing the love. Influence doesn’t matter unless we are helping others. On top of that, I love your point about getting cozy with up-and-comers because more times than not- they bring a fresh perspective to business that you simply can’t get from seasoned bloggers, entrepreneurs, etc. They bring bright ideas and new solutions that people who have been “in it” can’t see.

    I believe we are truly in a time when the idea of competition is being overturned by the brilliant concept of collaboration and this post is a great reminder that we have to get out of our egos and into our hearts if we want to build a brand/influence that matters.

    Maybe one day, if we are both at one of those IRL events, we can have an in person conversation to see where our Klout scores are and if we agree with them… right now, I’m not so sure ;)

    Thank you also for the reminder that being grateful has a lot to do with influence! So very true. :)

  • Anonymous

    Chris, this is such a wonderful post and such a beautiful – yet practical – message about sharing the love. Influence doesn’t matter unless we are helping others. On top of that, I love your point about getting cozy with up-and-comers because more times than not- they bring a fresh perspective to business that you simply can’t get from seasoned bloggers, entrepreneurs, etc. They bring bright ideas and new solutions that people who have been “in it” can’t see.

    I believe we are truly in a time when the idea of competition is being overturned by the brilliant concept of collaboration and this post is a great reminder that we have to get out of our egos and into our hearts if we want to build a brand/influence that matters.

    Maybe one day, if we are both at one of those IRL events, we can have an in person conversation to see where our Klout scores are and if we agree with them… right now, I’m not so sure ;)

    Thank you also for the reminder that being grateful has a lot to do with influence! So very true. :)

  • http://twitter.com/mentormarketing Debra Leitl

    With this continued online discourse relating to influence, I say once again, “I would rather work to empower multiple influencers instead of focusing on my own influence, and reach.”

  • http://www.mblast.com Gary Lee

    Chris:

    Great post. The only thing I’d like to add is that when you talked about Mark Horvath, and stated he had influence over you, while you mentioned it was because he was someone you knew and trusted, it was also because he had a high degree of authority on the subject at hand — cameras. He knows this topic. He uses this product. And he is therefore in a unique position to offer solid advice — and perhaps yield influence – than someone with 10k followers who casually mentions the fact they used a camera today.

    This is not a subtle point. For someone to have influence – at least as far as marketing is concerned as a discipline — it’s really important for that person to have topical relevancy. They need to be recognized as actively talking about the topics that matter to the person being influenced and they must have a level of authority to have that voice.

    For you Chris, I recognize your authority on all things social media related. I listen to you. I respect your opinion. You have influence over this market. If you suddenly started pontificating wildly about Bach or Mozart, you might not have as much influence over my opinion as other “experts” I respect, or people who have personal influence over me as well.

    So when we’re thinking about influence, let’s be sure to note how important topical relevancy is — at least in the world of marketing and looking at who is moving the mass market. Most of the tools out there are ignoring this today. And I think this is a HUGE mistake.

  • Anonymous

    Nice post Chris. I agree with you that people should not focus on their Klout score. It really means nothing. It seems like it was something to drive awareness of the Klout brand because people care about how they rank against others. I think the most important thing you said here was “we learned from that how to build networked relationships with important people in the podcasting and new media space.” Everyone needs to figure out the space they want to be involved and then build genuine relationships in that space with as many people as possible and where time is a constraint – be strategic. This is where influence gets misconstrued. You also allude to the fact that influence is relative. You have people in your network that influence you on cameras and others that influence you on social media and others on other subjects. That is what is exciting about this space. In this whole post you never mention Trust Agents but to me that is a great example of what you want to do in your desired network. That builds real relationships and allows you to create a valuable asset in your network of trusted relationships.

  • http://www.themurr.com/ David Murray

    You have helped me several times over, and havegone out of your way to turn the heads of those who listen to you, to take few seconds and pay attention to what I am doing. You’ve done this without asking or expecting anything in return. This has always stuck with me, and it is a lesson that I have done my best to practice daily. Thank you!

  • http://www.themurr.com/ David Murray

    You have helped me several times over, and havegone out of your way to turn the heads of those who listen to you, to take few seconds and pay attention to what I am doing. You’ve done this without asking or expecting anything in return. This has always stuck with me, and it is a lesson that I have done my best to practice daily. Thank you!

  • http://www.themurr.com/ David Murray

    You have helped me several times over, and havegone out of your way to turn the heads of those who listen to you, to take few seconds and pay attention to what I am doing. You’ve done this without asking or expecting anything in return. This has always stuck with me, and it is a lesson that I have done my best to practice daily. Thank you!

  • Daniel Decker

    Love it. I’ve always thought… If you want followers then you have to offer something worth following. But ironically those who start by trying to build a following can miss it because they’re motives are sometimes rooted in building a following for their own benefit versus the benefit of the follower. Subtle but important.

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  • MatthewLiberty

    Great article, there has been so much conversation lately about Klout score, screw it. Influential is great but being sincerely helpful will get you where you want to go. You can’t fake it, you can’t manipulate true help; eventually you get found out. Care about people, help people, and things come back; if that leads to influence great…but if not, just keep doing “what you do”.

  • http://twitter.com/meganberry Megan Berry

    Hey Chris,

    Great article, thanks for sharing! I think I may point people to this the next time they ask me how to raise their Klout score :) It’s about the connections with people — care about *that*, and the rest will follow.

    -Megan
    @meganberry
    Marketing Manager, Klout

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  • http://www.coopersbarnyard.com Frankie Cooper

    This is right on target gaining influence by being helpful.

  • http://www.coopersbarnyard.com Frankie Cooper

    This is right on target gaining influence by being helpful.

  • http://twitter.com/marymcd Mary McD

    Hi Chris,

    Catching up on some of my posts during a quiet time, and as usual you give all something to think about. Folks who are concerned with their ranking, to the point of taking lots of action to improve it, are IMHO missing the point about social media – the point you so eloquently make about reaching out, being authentic, and giving of yourself. Although we’ve only met virtually, I tend to know a bit about you because you share – your family including your parents, your haunts, etc. –

    I also am a huge fan of @GlendaWH and try every day to be 1/10 as awesome as she is… I had the pleasure of meeting her in person in July, and we had a grand time chatting over lunch. I look forward to seeing her again soon! In the meantime, everyone besides Chris who’s not following Glenda Watson Hyatt – click on the link, subscribe to her feed, and be prepared to be humbled! (And the book is pretty darn good reading also – just became available on Kindle…)

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  • http://www.wickedinnovations.com/ Jeorge Peter

    Influence is the silver lining, you really know about influence huh.

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  • Courtney

    Ahhhh….this is refreshing. Confirmation that doing what you love well and being generous brings ultimate success. I think I found my new favorite blog, and will gladly subscribe – thank you for your help!

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    Your idea is so innovative.. Great article..
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